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  • missconstrue@mefi.socialM missconstrue@mefi.social

    So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.

    But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.

    We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.

    But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.

    tek@freeradical.zoneT This user is from outside of this forum
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    @MissConstrue Eh. While I agree, I put this in the same category as finding that, say, a Mormon legislator likes to drink whiskey. I couldn't care less that they like to drink whiskey. They're a grown-up. They can do that. What I heavily mind is that they do this while screaming that any other adult who drinks whiskey is a monster we should banish from society.

    It's 100% the hypocrisy. If cross dressing is how he deals with being married to Noem, good for him. Now let others do it, too.

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    • mek2600@infosec.exchangeM mek2600@infosec.exchange

      @MissConstrue When the news broke I told my wife that the dude should have been a Democrat because (in general) we don't give a shit.

      I will laugh because of the hypocrisy but i don't care what he does in private as long as he stops trying to hurt people for also doing what they want in private.

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      #8

      @mek2600 exactly this.

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      • tek@freeradical.zoneT tek@freeradical.zone

        @MissConstrue Eh. While I agree, I put this in the same category as finding that, say, a Mormon legislator likes to drink whiskey. I couldn't care less that they like to drink whiskey. They're a grown-up. They can do that. What I heavily mind is that they do this while screaming that any other adult who drinks whiskey is a monster we should banish from society.

        It's 100% the hypocrisy. If cross dressing is how he deals with being married to Noem, good for him. Now let others do it, too.

        missconstrue@mefi.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
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        #9

        @tek while I agree in principle, I see it as, if we found out Kristi was a drag king in her spare time, then by all means fire with all barrels, but her husband is just an insurance salesman.

        Can we fault him for staying married to puppy killer hypocrite? Certainly. But spousal abuse is real, and it’s not always men. We have no idea what could make him tolerate her for all these years, or why he didn’t leave to find his own bliss. (Imagine trying to escape an abuser who has all the power of the State.)

        I don’t feel like I have data points to cast judgement on Mr. Noem, but I feel quite certain in my willingness to throw stones at Mrs Noem.

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        • missconstrue@mefi.socialM missconstrue@mefi.social

          @tek while I agree in principle, I see it as, if we found out Kristi was a drag king in her spare time, then by all means fire with all barrels, but her husband is just an insurance salesman.

          Can we fault him for staying married to puppy killer hypocrite? Certainly. But spousal abuse is real, and it’s not always men. We have no idea what could make him tolerate her for all these years, or why he didn’t leave to find his own bliss. (Imagine trying to escape an abuser who has all the power of the State.)

          I don’t feel like I have data points to cast judgement on Mr. Noem, but I feel quite certain in my willingness to throw stones at Mrs Noem.

          tek@freeradical.zoneT This user is from outside of this forum
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          #10

          @MissConstrue Totally fair! It's easy to say he deserves this, but we have no way of knowing that. Perhaps he supports her completely; perhaps he's already planning his escape. I certainly don't know.

          That said, I certainly understand the schadenfreude. I don't think it's funny that an adult likes to cross dress. I see why others think it's funny that this particular adult likes to, given that we don't have a reason to suspect he's their involuntarily.

          But either way, way, don't shame him.

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          • missconstrue@mefi.socialM missconstrue@mefi.social

            So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.

            But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.

            We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.

            But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.

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            @MissConstrue

            Yes, please. If he wants to crossdress, by all means -- if he wants to go full queen, more power. If we're going to stigmatize him at all, let it be for actions like staying with and encouraging Mrs. Puppy Killer, not for something harmless and fun like playing dress-up or getting into the sissy community.

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            • missconstrue@mefi.socialM missconstrue@mefi.social

              So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.

              But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.

              We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.

              But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.

              kitkat_blue@mastodon.socialK This user is from outside of this forum
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              #12

              @MissConstrue

              "..an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis.."

              Girl that is fantastic omg! 🤣

              Tho...seems like that applies to a whole lot more of them than just Miller tbh.... Got a whole dolltown of these ghouls.

              as for the crossdressing. to me (and most that *i* saw coming from the lgbt community) that was all about the incredible irony and arch hypocrisy on display. But if there was any shaming of this -as-crossdressing-then ya, that's plain wrong, agreed.

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              • kitkat_blue@mastodon.socialK kitkat_blue@mastodon.social

                @MissConstrue

                "..an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis.."

                Girl that is fantastic omg! 🤣

                Tho...seems like that applies to a whole lot more of them than just Miller tbh.... Got a whole dolltown of these ghouls.

                as for the crossdressing. to me (and most that *i* saw coming from the lgbt community) that was all about the incredible irony and arch hypocrisy on display. But if there was any shaming of this -as-crossdressing-then ya, that's plain wrong, agreed.

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                #13

                @kitkat_blue Yeah, I wanted to tread really carefully because I'm only the mom of a member of the transcommunity, I'm not myself part of the LBGTQA community, and I don't want to overstep.

                The hypocrasy is mind blowing, like how do you even live with that kind of cognitive dissonance?

                I have opinions, but it's more about the bioethics of the community Bryon was a part of than it is the behavior or desires of the people therein. And I'm not well educated enough about the community to state those opinions categorically without research.

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                • missconstrue@mefi.socialM missconstrue@mefi.social

                  So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.

                  But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.

                  We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.

                  But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.

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                  @MissConstrue

                  luv kinky kinks

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                  • missconstrue@mefi.socialM missconstrue@mefi.social

                    So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.

                    But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.

                    We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.

                    But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.

                    eetschrijver@mastodon.socialE This user is from outside of this forum
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                    @MissConstrue This is precisely what I'd been thinking, but articulated way better.

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                    • missconstrue@mefi.socialM missconstrue@mefi.social

                      So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.

                      But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.

                      We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.

                      But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.

                      netraven@hear-me.socialN This user is from outside of this forum
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                      @MissConstrue literally flood congress with dildos of every color.

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                      • missconstrue@mefi.socialM missconstrue@mefi.social

                        So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.

                        But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.

                        We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.

                        But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.

                        lisamelton@mastodon.socialL This user is from outside of this forum
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                        @MissConstrue This. 💯

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                        • missconstrue@mefi.socialM missconstrue@mefi.social

                          So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.

                          But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.

                          We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.

                          But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.

                          realtegan@wandering.shopR This user is from outside of this forum
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                          @MissConstrue
                          The only thing I judge him for is staying married to Kristi Noem. Everything else is up in the air, and his kinks are so far down the list of potential problems I have with him that news of them just made me shrug and say, "Okay."

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                          • netraven@hear-me.socialN netraven@hear-me.social

                            @MissConstrue literally flood congress with dildos of every color.

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                            @Netraven OMBob, imagine the fun we could have if we could convince a factory to sell to us at cost. Just barrels and barrels of dildos being delivered to offices. Oh...heh. 🙂

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                            • theogrin@chaosfem.twT theogrin@chaosfem.tw

                              @MissConstrue

                              Yes, please. If he wants to crossdress, by all means -- if he wants to go full queen, more power. If we're going to stigmatize him at all, let it be for actions like staying with and encouraging Mrs. Puppy Killer, not for something harmless and fun like playing dress-up or getting into the sissy community.

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                              @theogrin @MissConstrue I wish the same attention were given to the rapists, pedophiles, those who commit nonconsensual, criminal activities.

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                              • eetschrijver@mastodon.socialE eetschrijver@mastodon.social

                                @MissConstrue This is precisely what I'd been thinking, but articulated way better.

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                                @Eetschrijver Aw, thanks. 🙂

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                                • cstamp@mastodon.socialC cstamp@mastodon.social

                                  @theogrin @MissConstrue I wish the same attention were given to the rapists, pedophiles, those who commit nonconsensual, criminal activities.

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                                  @CStamp @theogrin
                                  💯

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                                  • missconstrue@mefi.socialM missconstrue@mefi.social

                                    @Netraven OMBob, imagine the fun we could have if we could convince a factory to sell to us at cost. Just barrels and barrels of dildos being delivered to offices. Oh...heh. 🙂

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                                    @MissConstrue every now and then a dildo factory goes out of business and they leave their casts behind.

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                                    • missconstrue@mefi.socialM missconstrue@mefi.social

                                      So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.

                                      But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.

                                      We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.

                                      But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.

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                                      @MissConstrue

                                      “an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller)”

                                      Well done!! 👍👍😱

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                                      • cstamp@mastodon.socialC cstamp@mastodon.social

                                        @theogrin @MissConstrue I wish the same attention were given to the rapists, pedophiles, those who commit nonconsensual, criminal activities.

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                                        @CStamp @MissConstrue

                                        Sure, but it is in the nature of the Calvinistic patriarchy to criminalize help, while lionizing harm.

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                                        • missconstrue@mefi.socialM missconstrue@mefi.social

                                          So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.

                                          But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.

                                          We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.

                                          But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.

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                                          @MissConstrue
                                          I haven't said a word about that to anybody because, frankly, I don't care what he does for fun. But the hypocrisy does rankle a bit.

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