So, there’s a lot going on.
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So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.
But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.
We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.
But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.
@MissConstrue When the news broke I told my wife that the dude should have been a Democrat because (in general) we don't give a shit.
I will laugh because of the hypocrisy but i don't care what he does in private as long as he stops trying to hurt people for also doing what they want in private.
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So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.
But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.
We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.
But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.
@MissConstrue Eh. While I agree, I put this in the same category as finding that, say, a Mormon legislator likes to drink whiskey. I couldn't care less that they like to drink whiskey. They're a grown-up. They can do that. What I heavily mind is that they do this while screaming that any other adult who drinks whiskey is a monster we should banish from society.
It's 100% the hypocrisy. If cross dressing is how he deals with being married to Noem, good for him. Now let others do it, too.
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@MissConstrue When the news broke I told my wife that the dude should have been a Democrat because (in general) we don't give a shit.
I will laugh because of the hypocrisy but i don't care what he does in private as long as he stops trying to hurt people for also doing what they want in private.
@mek2600 exactly this.
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@MissConstrue Eh. While I agree, I put this in the same category as finding that, say, a Mormon legislator likes to drink whiskey. I couldn't care less that they like to drink whiskey. They're a grown-up. They can do that. What I heavily mind is that they do this while screaming that any other adult who drinks whiskey is a monster we should banish from society.
It's 100% the hypocrisy. If cross dressing is how he deals with being married to Noem, good for him. Now let others do it, too.
@tek while I agree in principle, I see it as, if we found out Kristi was a drag king in her spare time, then by all means fire with all barrels, but her husband is just an insurance salesman.
Can we fault him for staying married to puppy killer hypocrite? Certainly. But spousal abuse is real, and it’s not always men. We have no idea what could make him tolerate her for all these years, or why he didn’t leave to find his own bliss. (Imagine trying to escape an abuser who has all the power of the State.)
I don’t feel like I have data points to cast judgement on Mr. Noem, but I feel quite certain in my willingness to throw stones at Mrs Noem.
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@tek while I agree in principle, I see it as, if we found out Kristi was a drag king in her spare time, then by all means fire with all barrels, but her husband is just an insurance salesman.
Can we fault him for staying married to puppy killer hypocrite? Certainly. But spousal abuse is real, and it’s not always men. We have no idea what could make him tolerate her for all these years, or why he didn’t leave to find his own bliss. (Imagine trying to escape an abuser who has all the power of the State.)
I don’t feel like I have data points to cast judgement on Mr. Noem, but I feel quite certain in my willingness to throw stones at Mrs Noem.
@MissConstrue Totally fair! It's easy to say he deserves this, but we have no way of knowing that. Perhaps he supports her completely; perhaps he's already planning his escape. I certainly don't know.
That said, I certainly understand the schadenfreude. I don't think it's funny that an adult likes to cross dress. I see why others think it's funny that this particular adult likes to, given that we don't have a reason to suspect he's their involuntarily.
But either way, way, don't shame him.
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So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.
But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.
We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.
But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.
Yes, please. If he wants to crossdress, by all means -- if he wants to go full queen, more power. If we're going to stigmatize him at all, let it be for actions like staying with and encouraging Mrs. Puppy Killer, not for something harmless and fun like playing dress-up or getting into the sissy community.
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So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.
But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.
We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.
But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.
"..an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis.."
Girl that is fantastic omg!
Tho...seems like that applies to a whole lot more of them than just Miller tbh.... Got a whole dolltown of these ghouls.
as for the crossdressing. to me (and most that *i* saw coming from the lgbt community) that was all about the incredible irony and arch hypocrisy on display. But if there was any shaming of this -as-crossdressing-then ya, that's plain wrong, agreed.
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"..an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis.."
Girl that is fantastic omg!
Tho...seems like that applies to a whole lot more of them than just Miller tbh.... Got a whole dolltown of these ghouls.
as for the crossdressing. to me (and most that *i* saw coming from the lgbt community) that was all about the incredible irony and arch hypocrisy on display. But if there was any shaming of this -as-crossdressing-then ya, that's plain wrong, agreed.
@kitkat_blue Yeah, I wanted to tread really carefully because I'm only the mom of a member of the transcommunity, I'm not myself part of the LBGTQA community, and I don't want to overstep.
The hypocrasy is mind blowing, like how do you even live with that kind of cognitive dissonance?
I have opinions, but it's more about the bioethics of the community Bryon was a part of than it is the behavior or desires of the people therein. And I'm not well educated enough about the community to state those opinions categorically without research.
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So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.
But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.
We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.
But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.
luv kinky kinks
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So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.
But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.
We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.
But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.
@MissConstrue This is precisely what I'd been thinking, but articulated way better.
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So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.
But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.
We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.
But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.
@MissConstrue literally flood congress with dildos of every color.
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So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.
But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.
We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.
But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.
@MissConstrue This.

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So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.
But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.
We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.
But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.
@MissConstrue
The only thing I judge him for is staying married to Kristi Noem. Everything else is up in the air, and his kinks are so far down the list of potential problems I have with him that news of them just made me shrug and say, "Okay." -
@MissConstrue literally flood congress with dildos of every color.
@Netraven OMBob, imagine the fun we could have if we could convince a factory to sell to us at cost. Just barrels and barrels of dildos being delivered to offices. Oh...heh.

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Yes, please. If he wants to crossdress, by all means -- if he wants to go full queen, more power. If we're going to stigmatize him at all, let it be for actions like staying with and encouraging Mrs. Puppy Killer, not for something harmless and fun like playing dress-up or getting into the sissy community.
@theogrin @MissConstrue I wish the same attention were given to the rapists, pedophiles, those who commit nonconsensual, criminal activities.
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@MissConstrue This is precisely what I'd been thinking, but articulated way better.
@Eetschrijver Aw, thanks.

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@theogrin @MissConstrue I wish the same attention were given to the rapists, pedophiles, those who commit nonconsensual, criminal activities.
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@Netraven OMBob, imagine the fun we could have if we could convince a factory to sell to us at cost. Just barrels and barrels of dildos being delivered to offices. Oh...heh.

@MissConstrue every now and then a dildo factory goes out of business and they leave their casts behind.
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So, there’s a lot going on. Pam #Bondi has been thrown on the sacrificial pyre, so that’s fun. Tel Aviv was pounded by #Iran, and the US media isn’t reporting it. The president of these united states has lost any semblance of rationality, and an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller) is our shadow president.
But I want to talk about Byron #Noem. And here’s why. I’m deeply uncomfortable with how “our” side is dealing with this. This was our chance to shine. We should have been out here saying that as kinks go, cross dressing is pretty fucking vanilla.
We should have used this as a chance for pushing acceptance. Yes, Kristi Noem is a monster who signed anti LGBTQ laws as a governor, and who had the audacity to lecture us while she was mile-high clubbing on tax dollars.
But we have the opportunity here to be the moral actors. If you are an ally, don’t let the right use this to further demonize #LGBTQA, or kinks for that matter.
“an abandoned Victorian doll haunted by the souls of unrepentant nazis (Stephen miller)”
Well done!!



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@theogrin @MissConstrue I wish the same attention were given to the rapists, pedophiles, those who commit nonconsensual, criminal activities.
Sure, but it is in the nature of the Calvinistic patriarchy to criminalize help, while lionizing harm.