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  3. A couple of weeks ago I bought a great pair of shorts from a charity shop, then wore them for the first time and immediately realised why someone donated them in the first place.

A couple of weeks ago I bought a great pair of shorts from a charity shop, then wore them for the first time and immediately realised why someone donated them in the first place.

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  • afewbugs@social.coopA afewbugs@social.coop

    Also it's 2026, women want pockets enough to make them ourselves FFS. Clothing companies take note

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    Also somewhere in the replies a man asked me what a needle threader was and I explained and now I feel like tracking down the library guy, waving my phone in his face and going "Look at that! You see how easy it is to take a genuine interest in something sewing related and ask a question in a perfectly normal way about it! LOOK HOW EASY IT IS NOT TO BE A CREEP!"

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    • afewbugs@social.coopA afewbugs@social.coop

      A couple of weeks ago I bought a great pair of shorts from a charity shop, then wore them for the first time and immediately realised why someone donated them in the first place.

      1/🧡

      #SlowFashion

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      @afewbugs

      When I added dark-out lining to my curtains 3 years ago in Oxfordshire, I borrowed a sewing machine from a local costume business. I was amazed they wanted no money.

      I love my curtains.

      I learned to sew by watching my grandma.

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      • jgrg@mstdn.scienceJ jgrg@mstdn.science

        @afewbugs Oh, weird. There would have been some pocket if they hadn't been embroidered through the pocket lining.

        betty@fandom.inkB This user is from outside of this forum
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        @jgrg @afewbugs yeah, maddening!

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        • afewbugs@social.coopA afewbugs@social.coop

          The only part of the experience that wasn't great was when a man interrupted me in the middle of the first pocket and asked me to teach him how to use a sewing machine, which is the sort of thing that unfortunately happens all too frequently while Being A Woman In Public. I waved the threading instruction sheet at him, told him he was in a library and suggested he get a book, told him to look for YouTube videos and suggested he ask any older female relatives he might have because there was a good chance they might know. He responded by asking if I would come back next Saturday and he would pay me to teach him.

          5/🧡

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          @afewbugs Love your flo mask! So pretty! 😍

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          • afewbugs@social.coopA afewbugs@social.coop

            @TimWardCam like this https://www.amazon.co.uk/Threaders-Plastic-Needles-Machines-Clothing/dp/B0BBZXDK6L/ Basically a diamond shaped bit of stiff wire you can put through the eye of the needle then have a much larger hole to put the thread through, then use it to pull the thread through the needle. They save so much faffing about

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            @afewbugs @TimWardCam
            Thanks for the info.

            I have seen them before, but never understood them. Now, I do.

            You rock!

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            • afewbugs@social.coopA afewbugs@social.coop

              So I cut some slits in the existing useless pockets and made some new ones.

              4/🧡

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              @afewbugs So cool!! Nice work πŸ˜„

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              • afewbugs@social.coopA afewbugs@social.coop

                So I cut some slits in the existing useless pockets and made some new ones.

                4/🧡

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                @afewbugs @Unixbigot
                Smart

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                • afewbugs@social.coopA afewbugs@social.coop

                  I decided it would be easier to sew the new pockets to the existing ones by hand, so this is my accountability thread to make sure I actually do that before it gets too cold to wear them. But yes, Exeter Library's sewing machine service: highly recommended. Creepy men: do not recommend.

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                  @afewbugs This is a brilliant idea! I have some pants with frustrating fake demi-pockets, and it never occurred to me to try adding extensions. Thank you for the inspiration!

                  #sewing

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                  • afewbugs@social.coopA afewbugs@social.coop

                    A couple of weeks ago I bought a great pair of shorts from a charity shop, then wore them for the first time and immediately realised why someone donated them in the first place.

                    1/🧡

                    #SlowFashion

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                    @afewbugs Argh, the fake tiny pockets!

                    I have done similar pocket surgery on jeans, and while it sucks that we have to make our own pockets, it's so satisfying when they're done. πŸ˜…

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                    • connychiwa@mastodon.nzC connychiwa@mastodon.nz

                      @afewbugs Love your flo mask! So pretty! 😍

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                      @ConnyChiwa thank you! The front just snaps off so is very easy to paint - I sprayed it with primer and used acrylic paint pens

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                      • betty@fandom.inkB betty@fandom.ink

                        @jgrg @afewbugs yeah, maddening!

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                        @Betty @jgrg @NilaJones came up with a plausible explanation in another branch of this thread https://zeroes.ca/@NilaJones/116665018097227860

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                        • vikki@know.me.ukV vikki@know.me.uk

                          @afewbugs Also, yes, an alarming number of men are creepy. It's hard to believe the scale of it until you start experiencing it.

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                          @vikki @afewbugs

                          On men being creepy: No need to belief, the data proofs it. https://www.qasimrashid.com/p/women-are-not-safe-around-men

                          And on a more happy note: great work on the pockets! I never got into sewing (or knitting) as the learning curve has always felt quite steep to me.

                          But looks like one of those things that is both useful and very satisfying.

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                          • afewbugs@social.coopA afewbugs@social.coop

                            @ConnyChiwa thank you! The front just snaps off so is very easy to paint - I sprayed it with primer and used acrylic paint pens

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                            @afewbugs Great job! I've seen decorated ones before but yours is particularly nice.

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                              @Su_G yes he looked to be in his fifties or sixties, which was ample time on this planet to have done a bit of research if he genuinely wanted to learn to sew rather than, say, spotting a target woman on her own and spontaneously developing an interest in whatever she was doing to give him an excuse to hassle her πŸ˜‚

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                                @Su_G @afewbugs my daughter is already raging against the lack of pockets for women. It's half the reason she wears Dangerfield and the like πŸ˜†

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                                • afewbugs@social.coopA afewbugs@social.coop

                                  Also it's 2026, women want pockets enough to make them ourselves FFS. Clothing companies take note

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                                  @afewbugs @Su_G I’ve sewn them into jackets, and even once paid a tailor to change faux pockets on a vintage blazer into real ones!

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                                  • gulleko@kind.socialG gulleko@kind.social

                                    @afewbugs Argh, the fake tiny pockets!

                                    I have done similar pocket surgery on jeans, and while it sucks that we have to make our own pockets, it's so satisfying when they're done. πŸ˜…

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                                    @Gulleko @afewbugs
                                    It seems to be an institutional bias / misogyny! Why wouldn't women (all of them inc trans) want regular sized pockets?
                                    Is it so, they have to carry things & as such have to be "helped" w doors etc?
                                    Or is it so, that because they are carrying things they're then "vulnerable" to predators?
                                    Good Krap almighty! Do we really need a campaign to fix an issue that should not fucking exist? Whats wrong w the clothing mnfrs?
                                    This form of misogyny is contemptuous.

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                                      @Su_G @afewbugs hehehe, yeh, she knows what's good. Picked out some second hand country road the other day at St Mark's πŸ˜†

                                      It sucks, kids "girls" all has pockets, but once you start buying teen shit it's all "hahaha, pockets? You thought!"

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                                        @Su_G @afewbugs yeh, doesn't really take much, just using the right materials and seams. Levi Strauss seemed to have figured that one out in the 1800's πŸ˜–

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                                        • sine_nomine@mstdn.socialS sine_nomine@mstdn.social

                                          @Gulleko @afewbugs
                                          It seems to be an institutional bias / misogyny! Why wouldn't women (all of them inc trans) want regular sized pockets?
                                          Is it so, they have to carry things & as such have to be "helped" w doors etc?
                                          Or is it so, that because they are carrying things they're then "vulnerable" to predators?
                                          Good Krap almighty! Do we really need a campaign to fix an issue that should not fucking exist? Whats wrong w the clothing mnfrs?
                                          This form of misogyny is contemptuous.

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                                          @Sine_Nomine If I remember correctly, I think the original culprit was the purse becoming fashionable. Women don't need pockets, they have purses! πŸ™„
                                          And then the fashion industry has just stayed in that mindset because of patriarchy bullshit.

                                          Plus smaller pockets means less fabric used, which means they can save money on fabric, and fast fashion will gladly cut every corner to save a few pennies per garment.

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