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  3. The vast majority of people who will be impacted by trans bans in sports will be little girls with short hair or arms that are "too muscular."

The vast majority of people who will be impacted by trans bans in sports will be little girls with short hair or arms that are "too muscular."

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  • secretsloth@mastodon.artS secretsloth@mastodon.art

    @futurebird yeah. This happened to a girl at my school growing up, constantly. She was white, but just looked too masculine. Parents on other teams complained at games and kept making accusations. I don't know how they handled it but I assume eventually they must have had something on file and ready because it was so consistent. I think about her so much now. It must be so much more common these days, like, have we learned nothing from the harms bullying has done?

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    @secretsloth @futurebird I have a friend whose daughter is over 6 feet (as are both her parents) who got it constantly. The school actually tried to make her use a different restroom to stop the complaints. It was awful.

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    • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

      The vast majority of people who will be impacted by trans bans in sports will be little girls with short hair or arms that are "too muscular."

      It will also mean that when a woman is good at her sport the disgusting grumbling and whispering about "may she is he" gets taken more seriously.

      This happened with Paula Radcliffe for running marathons too fast. If it helps you to think of a white cis woman being the victim of this.

      Of course little black girls will take the brunt of this. As ever.

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      @futurebird Fundamentally, it seems strange (and misguided) that sports is to be one of the very few areas that still tries to put people in just two boxes, while we now know that sex and gender is much more diverse than we would have guessed just a few decades ago.

      Why not dump the whole concept of men/women sport and use other kinds of classes? In boxing, there are weight classes. Why not similar classes in other sports? For running, classes could be based on leg length, for example.

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      • hydropsyche@ecoevo.socialH hydropsyche@ecoevo.social

        @semitones @futurebird He was lying by omission anyway. Thomas was a highly ranked swimmer before she started transitioning. The 250 rank came after beginning hormones but before she was allowed to compete as a woman.

        "During her freshman year, Thomas recorded a time of eight minutes and 57.55 seconds in the 1,000-yard freestyle that ranked as the sixth-fastest national men's time..."
        https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lia_Thomas

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        @hydropsyche @futurebird Knowing this person, I don't think they knew this information and chose to admit it. They probably only heard the unfavorable part of the story to begin with.

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        • stephanmatthiesen@troet.cafeS stephanmatthiesen@troet.cafe

          @futurebird Fundamentally, it seems strange (and misguided) that sports is to be one of the very few areas that still tries to put people in just two boxes, while we now know that sex and gender is much more diverse than we would have guessed just a few decades ago.

          Why not dump the whole concept of men/women sport and use other kinds of classes? In boxing, there are weight classes. Why not similar classes in other sports? For running, classes could be based on leg length, for example.

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          @futurebird so, in running competitions, tall people with long legs compete against other people with long legs and short-legged people compete with other short-legged people, independent of sex and gender.

          How these classes are defined exactly would need some research, this could include body features but also hormone levels or lung capacity or whatever.

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          • hydropsyche@ecoevo.socialH hydropsyche@ecoevo.social

            @secretsloth @futurebird I have a friend whose daughter is over 6 feet (as are both her parents) who got it constantly. The school actually tried to make her use a different restroom to stop the complaints. It was awful.

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            @hydropsyche @futurebird that's unforgivable. It shouldn't matter! If the answer is to make restrooms into non shared spaces, which maybe they should be, just, like, maybe we should all get a little more privacy in there? Then *that* should be the solution. Convert bathrooms into single occupancy spaces, period, end of. Nobody gets to be the genital police. Areas that bathing suits cover are private. One elementary school lesson that carries through to this day.

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            • stephanmatthiesen@troet.cafeS stephanmatthiesen@troet.cafe

              @futurebird Fundamentally, it seems strange (and misguided) that sports is to be one of the very few areas that still tries to put people in just two boxes, while we now know that sex and gender is much more diverse than we would have guessed just a few decades ago.

              Why not dump the whole concept of men/women sport and use other kinds of classes? In boxing, there are weight classes. Why not similar classes in other sports? For running, classes could be based on leg length, for example.

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              @StephanMatthiesen

              Women's sport clubs were created because men didn't want women playing with them. "No Girls Allowed" but it's grown men basically. So women made their own clubs. When you have these vast sexist barriers in access, in education, in cultural expectations just learning the rules of a sport and getting practice can become difficult.

              And at some point why deal with people who are rude and don't want you around when you could be doing the sport with other women?

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              • semitones@tiny.tilde.websiteS semitones@tiny.tilde.website

                @hydropsyche @futurebird Knowing this person, I don't think they knew this information and chose to admit it. They probably only heard the unfavorable part of the story to begin with.

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                @semitones @futurebird That's what social media and generative AI have done to people. Nobody bothers to actually research anything for themselves. They report as truth what somebody said on Facebook or what ChatGPT told them. It takes two minutes to read Lia Thomas's Wikipedia article, a few more minutes if you want to click through to the sources and learn even more.

                It's not hard to be well informed. But it's so damn easy to just repeat easy lies that support your bigotry.

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                • stephanmatthiesen@troet.cafeS stephanmatthiesen@troet.cafe

                  @futurebird so, in running competitions, tall people with long legs compete against other people with long legs and short-legged people compete with other short-legged people, independent of sex and gender.

                  How these classes are defined exactly would need some research, this could include body features but also hormone levels or lung capacity or whatever.

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                  @futurebird the point is, these should be classes that are based on body features that are relevant for the actual sports discipline, not just two classes (male/female) based on one genetic sex marker, which in general will not mean much for that particular sport.

                  In practically areas of life, we don't decide by gender if somebody is suited for a job or not, but by other criteria.

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                  • stephanmatthiesen@troet.cafeS stephanmatthiesen@troet.cafe

                    @futurebird Fundamentally, it seems strange (and misguided) that sports is to be one of the very few areas that still tries to put people in just two boxes, while we now know that sex and gender is much more diverse than we would have guessed just a few decades ago.

                    Why not dump the whole concept of men/women sport and use other kinds of classes? In boxing, there are weight classes. Why not similar classes in other sports? For running, classes could be based on leg length, for example.

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                    @StephanMatthiesen @futurebird
                    Men would never go for that. Can you imagine them losing to a woman in their top sport?

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                    • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                      @StephanMatthiesen

                      Women's sport clubs were created because men didn't want women playing with them. "No Girls Allowed" but it's grown men basically. So women made their own clubs. When you have these vast sexist barriers in access, in education, in cultural expectations just learning the rules of a sport and getting practice can become difficult.

                      And at some point why deal with people who are rude and don't want you around when you could be doing the sport with other women?

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                      @StephanMatthiesen

                      I would like to see all "men's only" sports clubs allow women in if those women want to be there and if they meet the entry conditions. After several decades of that maybe we could decide if we still need "women's sports"

                      Every now and then some little midwestern girl wants to play football and so she joins the "boy's team" and then there are news articles worrying about it.

                      This keeps happening because girls are generally told flat out "no you can't do this"

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                        @StephanMatthiesen @futurebird
                        Men would never go for that. Can you imagine them losing to a woman in their top sport?

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                        @Pinchy63 @StephanMatthiesen

                        As long as this is true we will have "women's spots" it's really that simple.

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                        • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                          @StephanMatthiesen

                          Women's sport clubs were created because men didn't want women playing with them. "No Girls Allowed" but it's grown men basically. So women made their own clubs. When you have these vast sexist barriers in access, in education, in cultural expectations just learning the rules of a sport and getting practice can become difficult.

                          And at some point why deal with people who are rude and don't want you around when you could be doing the sport with other women?

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                          @futurebird true, but that seems to me a whole other issue than the computational rules of professional sports competitions.

                          Related but separate issue. Of course one could still have safe spaces. And bullying and rude behavior should be banned no matter where it occurs.

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                          • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                            @Pinchy63 @StephanMatthiesen

                            As long as this is true we will have "women's spots" it's really that simple.

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                            @futurebird @StephanMatthiesen
                            Exactly.

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                            • hydropsyche@ecoevo.socialH hydropsyche@ecoevo.social

                              @semitones @futurebird That's what social media and generative AI have done to people. Nobody bothers to actually research anything for themselves. They report as truth what somebody said on Facebook or what ChatGPT told them. It takes two minutes to read Lia Thomas's Wikipedia article, a few more minutes if you want to click through to the sources and learn even more.

                              It's not hard to be well informed. But it's so damn easy to just repeat easy lies that support your bigotry.

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                              @hydropsyche @futurebird add to that that we are all overworked, busy, and addicted to social media. Who's going to fact check something that sounds plausible according to their worldview, and isn't that important to them personally?

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                              • stephanmatthiesen@troet.cafeS stephanmatthiesen@troet.cafe

                                @futurebird true, but that seems to me a whole other issue than the computational rules of professional sports competitions.

                                Related but separate issue. Of course one could still have safe spaces. And bullying and rude behavior should be banned no matter where it occurs.

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                                @StephanMatthiesen

                                The vast gaps in the "professional" levels grow out of the segregation and exclusion of girls in amateur clubs and local ventures where it really shouldn't matter as much.

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                                • semitones@tiny.tilde.websiteS semitones@tiny.tilde.website

                                  @hydropsyche @futurebird add to that that we are all overworked, busy, and addicted to social media. Who's going to fact check something that sounds plausible according to their worldview, and isn't that important to them personally?

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                                  @semitones @futurebird A grown adult who doesn't want to post lies? I don't know how to answer your question. I try to never post anything without fact checking it.

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                                  • pinchy63@ottawa.placeP pinchy63@ottawa.place

                                    @futurebird @StephanMatthiesen
                                    Exactly.

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                                    @Pinchy63 @futurebird
                                    Well, but isn't that the same problem as in many other areas that were tradditionally male-dominated? Women who went into plumbing or construction workers faced the same problems. The resolution was not to have construction sites that are women-only, but change the culture that it is now normal to have mixed teams of construction workers (I have a building site opposite my window so I see that every day).

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                                    • waitworry@sakurajima.moeW waitworry@sakurajima.moe

                                      @futurebird the trans ban in the Olympics also mandates genetic testing so I think we're going to end up with a lot of athletes who have been assigned female at birth and been living their whole lives as women getting randomly kicked out because it turns out they have abnormal chromosomes

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                                      @waitworry @futurebird This is exactly what happened last time, and why chromosome testing was ended. Women were finding out they had androgen insensitivity, or only a single X chromosome (no Y), or were XXY females, and the IOC finally ended chromosome testing in 1999 to protect the dignity of athletes who don't already know they have these conditions.

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                                      • hydropsyche@ecoevo.socialH hydropsyche@ecoevo.social

                                        @semitones @futurebird A grown adult who doesn't want to post lies? I don't know how to answer your question. I try to never post anything without fact checking it.

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                                        @hydropsyche @futurebird This was something discussed in person. I often discuss things that I don't know about a hundred percent. I just say what I've heard. Saying it's not hard to be well informed is missing the mark when the conservative elites made it their business to misinform people.

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                                        • futurebird@sauropods.winF futurebird@sauropods.win

                                          @StephanMatthiesen

                                          I would like to see all "men's only" sports clubs allow women in if those women want to be there and if they meet the entry conditions. After several decades of that maybe we could decide if we still need "women's sports"

                                          Every now and then some little midwestern girl wants to play football and so she joins the "boy's team" and then there are news articles worrying about it.

                                          This keeps happening because girls are generally told flat out "no you can't do this"

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                                          @StephanMatthiesen

                                          Many people think there are no girls on their local middle school football team because "girls just can't keep up" but this is totally false.

                                          There are no girls on the team because it's enforced as a "boys only" space. When someone points this out, when some girl comes along who just wants to play (and she need not be athletically exceptional, it's middle school, there are lots of boys on such teams who are not super athletes) everyone freaks out.

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