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Dear Scammers, Spammers, Bots, and Trolls,Fuck you.

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  • orca@nya.oneO orca@nya.one
    @alice@lgbtqia.space I'll probably never understand why that "need help with insulin" spammer are always asking but never left a link.
    Why do they keep doing that?
    alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
    alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
    alice@lgbtqia.space
    wrote last edited by
    #18

    @Orca some scammers are bad at their jobs too 💁🏼‍♀️

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    • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

      Dear Scammers, Spammers, Bots, and Trolls,
      Fuck you. Get off Fedi. No one wants you here.

      Dear Mutual Aid Requesters,
      Don't act like scammers, spammers, or bots—otherwise you get treated like them. Instead, build community and friends here. Contribute positively. Then folx will want to help you.

      Dear Adult Content Posters,
      Don't post other folx' nudes without consent. It makes you look like spammers and bots; and it's considered Image-Based Sexual Abuse, as well as copyright infringement—both of which are illegal. Instead, boost local sexworkers / content creators and post your own stuff. Build something positive.

      Dear Reply Guys, Sea Lions, and Concern Trolls,
      Just stop. Also, you used the wrong *their* again.

      Dear Everyone,
      Be kind. Support marginalized communities. Write good alt-text. Report predatory accounts. And keep being lovely 💞

      Let's keep Fedi from becoming Twitter, together.

      We've got a good thing here.

      /endRant

      terrasays@mastodon.socialT This user is from outside of this forum
      terrasays@mastodon.socialT This user is from outside of this forum
      terrasays@mastodon.social
      wrote last edited by
      #19

      @alice

      Great post. While we’re at it (as I’ve posted about a few times), make this #fedifirst - As in, post here on Mastodon with your content. Don’t force me to go off-site so that you get ad revenue.

      weirdwriter@caneandable.socialW 1 Reply Last reply
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      • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

        Dear Scammers, Spammers, Bots, and Trolls,
        Fuck you. Get off Fedi. No one wants you here.

        Dear Mutual Aid Requesters,
        Don't act like scammers, spammers, or bots—otherwise you get treated like them. Instead, build community and friends here. Contribute positively. Then folx will want to help you.

        Dear Adult Content Posters,
        Don't post other folx' nudes without consent. It makes you look like spammers and bots; and it's considered Image-Based Sexual Abuse, as well as copyright infringement—both of which are illegal. Instead, boost local sexworkers / content creators and post your own stuff. Build something positive.

        Dear Reply Guys, Sea Lions, and Concern Trolls,
        Just stop. Also, you used the wrong *their* again.

        Dear Everyone,
        Be kind. Support marginalized communities. Write good alt-text. Report predatory accounts. And keep being lovely 💞

        Let's keep Fedi from becoming Twitter, together.

        We've got a good thing here.

        /endRant

        masp@wandering.shopM This user is from outside of this forum
        masp@wandering.shopM This user is from outside of this forum
        masp@wandering.shop
        wrote last edited by
        #20

        @alice I just saw, muted and reported my first ever spammer and spam post this morning.

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        • masp@wandering.shopM masp@wandering.shop

          @alice I just saw, muted and reported my first ever spammer and spam post this morning.

          alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
          alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
          alice@lgbtqia.space
          wrote last edited by
          #21

          @masp congrats!(?) and thank you for helping make Fedi a better place ❤️

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          • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

            Dear Scammers, Spammers, Bots, and Trolls,
            Fuck you. Get off Fedi. No one wants you here.

            Dear Mutual Aid Requesters,
            Don't act like scammers, spammers, or bots—otherwise you get treated like them. Instead, build community and friends here. Contribute positively. Then folx will want to help you.

            Dear Adult Content Posters,
            Don't post other folx' nudes without consent. It makes you look like spammers and bots; and it's considered Image-Based Sexual Abuse, as well as copyright infringement—both of which are illegal. Instead, boost local sexworkers / content creators and post your own stuff. Build something positive.

            Dear Reply Guys, Sea Lions, and Concern Trolls,
            Just stop. Also, you used the wrong *their* again.

            Dear Everyone,
            Be kind. Support marginalized communities. Write good alt-text. Report predatory accounts. And keep being lovely 💞

            Let's keep Fedi from becoming Twitter, together.

            We've got a good thing here.

            /endRant

            trainguyrom@techhub.socialT This user is from outside of this forum
            trainguyrom@techhub.socialT This user is from outside of this forum
            trainguyrom@techhub.social
            wrote last edited by
            #22

            @alice hit the nail on the head for some of the recent(ish) troubling trends I've been encountering here on fedi!

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            • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

              Dear Scammers, Spammers, Bots, and Trolls,
              Fuck you. Get off Fedi. No one wants you here.

              Dear Mutual Aid Requesters,
              Don't act like scammers, spammers, or bots—otherwise you get treated like them. Instead, build community and friends here. Contribute positively. Then folx will want to help you.

              Dear Adult Content Posters,
              Don't post other folx' nudes without consent. It makes you look like spammers and bots; and it's considered Image-Based Sexual Abuse, as well as copyright infringement—both of which are illegal. Instead, boost local sexworkers / content creators and post your own stuff. Build something positive.

              Dear Reply Guys, Sea Lions, and Concern Trolls,
              Just stop. Also, you used the wrong *their* again.

              Dear Everyone,
              Be kind. Support marginalized communities. Write good alt-text. Report predatory accounts. And keep being lovely 💞

              Let's keep Fedi from becoming Twitter, together.

              We've got a good thing here.

              /endRant

              jetsoft@hachyderm.ioJ This user is from outside of this forum
              jetsoft@hachyderm.ioJ This user is from outside of this forum
              jetsoft@hachyderm.io
              wrote last edited by
              #23

              @alice I'm just triggered by the endrant closing without a startrant opening. Feels wrong. Unmatched brackets.
              (JOKE))

              But i am thinking of starting to filter some of the links to the more annoying ad filled sites.
              Oh an bots that repeat the headline text twice and then again in the links preview.

              alice@lgbtqia.spaceA 1 Reply Last reply
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              • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                Dear Scammers, Spammers, Bots, and Trolls,
                Fuck you. Get off Fedi. No one wants you here.

                Dear Mutual Aid Requesters,
                Don't act like scammers, spammers, or bots—otherwise you get treated like them. Instead, build community and friends here. Contribute positively. Then folx will want to help you.

                Dear Adult Content Posters,
                Don't post other folx' nudes without consent. It makes you look like spammers and bots; and it's considered Image-Based Sexual Abuse, as well as copyright infringement—both of which are illegal. Instead, boost local sexworkers / content creators and post your own stuff. Build something positive.

                Dear Reply Guys, Sea Lions, and Concern Trolls,
                Just stop. Also, you used the wrong *their* again.

                Dear Everyone,
                Be kind. Support marginalized communities. Write good alt-text. Report predatory accounts. And keep being lovely 💞

                Let's keep Fedi from becoming Twitter, together.

                We've got a good thing here.

                /endRant

                purrperl@noc.socialP This user is from outside of this forum
                purrperl@noc.socialP This user is from outside of this forum
                purrperl@noc.social
                wrote last edited by
                #24

                @alice

                Re: Reply Guys

                People get to the Fedi from the walled-garden social media platforms of Billionaires. They're used to having their feeds curated by algorithms, which censor them, keep their feeds full of friction-less, flattering posts, calculated to make the platform "sticky", for the sake of corporate bottom-lines. When folks get to the Fedi, they're suddenly rawdogging the planet's voices & are shocked that strangers across the Earth can read their toots, worse — reply to them.

                1/n

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                • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                  Dear Scammers, Spammers, Bots, and Trolls,
                  Fuck you. Get off Fedi. No one wants you here.

                  Dear Mutual Aid Requesters,
                  Don't act like scammers, spammers, or bots—otherwise you get treated like them. Instead, build community and friends here. Contribute positively. Then folx will want to help you.

                  Dear Adult Content Posters,
                  Don't post other folx' nudes without consent. It makes you look like spammers and bots; and it's considered Image-Based Sexual Abuse, as well as copyright infringement—both of which are illegal. Instead, boost local sexworkers / content creators and post your own stuff. Build something positive.

                  Dear Reply Guys, Sea Lions, and Concern Trolls,
                  Just stop. Also, you used the wrong *their* again.

                  Dear Everyone,
                  Be kind. Support marginalized communities. Write good alt-text. Report predatory accounts. And keep being lovely 💞

                  Let's keep Fedi from becoming Twitter, together.

                  We've got a good thing here.

                  /endRant

                  dan@friendsofdesoto.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
                  dan@friendsofdesoto.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
                  dan@friendsofdesoto.social
                  wrote last edited by
                  #25

                  @alice

                  I can't be the only one who had to look up sea lions (searching for it along with "reply guy" got me past the cute mammals). Here you go:
                  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sealioning

                  Yay learning! And thanks, Alice, for your championing of the community here in the Fedi!

                  alice@lgbtqia.spaceA cyberwitch@goingdark.socialC 2 Replies Last reply
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                  • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                    @x41h different worlds I guess. Also, I'm an adult content creator, so I see my own stuff posted here 😋

                    x41h@infosec.exchangeX This user is from outside of this forum
                    x41h@infosec.exchangeX This user is from outside of this forum
                    x41h@infosec.exchange
                    wrote last edited by
                    #26

                    @alice Got ya. Wonder if I need to check my settings. I've literally never saw any content from yourself or others.

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                    • purrperl@noc.socialP purrperl@noc.social

                      @alice

                      Re: Reply Guys

                      People get to the Fedi from the walled-garden social media platforms of Billionaires. They're used to having their feeds curated by algorithms, which censor them, keep their feeds full of friction-less, flattering posts, calculated to make the platform "sticky", for the sake of corporate bottom-lines. When folks get to the Fedi, they're suddenly rawdogging the planet's voices & are shocked that strangers across the Earth can read their toots, worse — reply to them.

                      1/n

                      purrperl@noc.socialP This user is from outside of this forum
                      purrperl@noc.socialP This user is from outside of this forum
                      purrperl@noc.social
                      wrote last edited by
                      #27

                      @alice

                      This discomfort has been attributed to a bogeyman, a construct called "reply guys". Guess what? It's quite normal for people to want to share their ideas and reaction to your ideas. That's why it's called "social" media.

                      So how do we assuage these concerns? Perhaps Fedi platforms, such as Mastodon, should default to a more restrictive setting on who can reply to your toots. Anyone can change the settings in their personal preferences, though newcomers find it too inconvenient.

                      2/n

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                      • purrperl@noc.socialP purrperl@noc.social

                        @alice

                        This discomfort has been attributed to a bogeyman, a construct called "reply guys". Guess what? It's quite normal for people to want to share their ideas and reaction to your ideas. That's why it's called "social" media.

                        So how do we assuage these concerns? Perhaps Fedi platforms, such as Mastodon, should default to a more restrictive setting on who can reply to your toots. Anyone can change the settings in their personal preferences, though newcomers find it too inconvenient.

                        2/n

                        purrperl@noc.socialP This user is from outside of this forum
                        purrperl@noc.socialP This user is from outside of this forum
                        purrperl@noc.social
                        wrote last edited by
                        #28

                        @alice

                        We could provide newcomers with step-by-step instructions on how to change their settings so that only people they follow can reply to their posts. Though the newcomers who complain about "reply guys" are the ones least likely to follow this inconvenient procedure to get rid of unwanted replies.

                        Reply guys don't exist. If you're unhappy about Mohammed from Gaza replying to your toots in bad English, fix your settings.

                        Democracy can be uncomfortable, and requires conscious effort.

                        3/3

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                        • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                          Dear Scammers, Spammers, Bots, and Trolls,
                          Fuck you. Get off Fedi. No one wants you here.

                          Dear Mutual Aid Requesters,
                          Don't act like scammers, spammers, or bots—otherwise you get treated like them. Instead, build community and friends here. Contribute positively. Then folx will want to help you.

                          Dear Adult Content Posters,
                          Don't post other folx' nudes without consent. It makes you look like spammers and bots; and it's considered Image-Based Sexual Abuse, as well as copyright infringement—both of which are illegal. Instead, boost local sexworkers / content creators and post your own stuff. Build something positive.

                          Dear Reply Guys, Sea Lions, and Concern Trolls,
                          Just stop. Also, you used the wrong *their* again.

                          Dear Everyone,
                          Be kind. Support marginalized communities. Write good alt-text. Report predatory accounts. And keep being lovely 💞

                          Let's keep Fedi from becoming Twitter, together.

                          We've got a good thing here.

                          /endRant

                          idoodle@mastodon.socialI This user is from outside of this forum
                          idoodle@mastodon.socialI This user is from outside of this forum
                          idoodle@mastodon.social
                          wrote last edited by
                          #29

                          @alice
                          Thank you, Alice ✌🏾

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                          • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                            Dear Scammers, Spammers, Bots, and Trolls,
                            Fuck you. Get off Fedi. No one wants you here.

                            Dear Mutual Aid Requesters,
                            Don't act like scammers, spammers, or bots—otherwise you get treated like them. Instead, build community and friends here. Contribute positively. Then folx will want to help you.

                            Dear Adult Content Posters,
                            Don't post other folx' nudes without consent. It makes you look like spammers and bots; and it's considered Image-Based Sexual Abuse, as well as copyright infringement—both of which are illegal. Instead, boost local sexworkers / content creators and post your own stuff. Build something positive.

                            Dear Reply Guys, Sea Lions, and Concern Trolls,
                            Just stop. Also, you used the wrong *their* again.

                            Dear Everyone,
                            Be kind. Support marginalized communities. Write good alt-text. Report predatory accounts. And keep being lovely 💞

                            Let's keep Fedi from becoming Twitter, together.

                            We've got a good thing here.

                            /endRant

                            qgustavor@urusai.socialQ This user is from outside of this forum
                            qgustavor@urusai.socialQ This user is from outside of this forum
                            qgustavor@urusai.social
                            wrote last edited by
                            #30

                            @alice I should add: don't abuse message editing. Once I saw a poster editing a humour post adding a line to cause a gender war (e.g. "men should not reply" after many men replied). That's bait and switch. It's disrespectful. That's not lovely.

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                            • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                              Dear Scammers, Spammers, Bots, and Trolls,
                              Fuck you. Get off Fedi. No one wants you here.

                              Dear Mutual Aid Requesters,
                              Don't act like scammers, spammers, or bots—otherwise you get treated like them. Instead, build community and friends here. Contribute positively. Then folx will want to help you.

                              Dear Adult Content Posters,
                              Don't post other folx' nudes without consent. It makes you look like spammers and bots; and it's considered Image-Based Sexual Abuse, as well as copyright infringement—both of which are illegal. Instead, boost local sexworkers / content creators and post your own stuff. Build something positive.

                              Dear Reply Guys, Sea Lions, and Concern Trolls,
                              Just stop. Also, you used the wrong *their* again.

                              Dear Everyone,
                              Be kind. Support marginalized communities. Write good alt-text. Report predatory accounts. And keep being lovely 💞

                              Let's keep Fedi from becoming Twitter, together.

                              We've got a good thing here.

                              /endRant

                              drewseph@ohai.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
                              drewseph@ohai.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
                              drewseph@ohai.social
                              wrote last edited by
                              #31

                              @alice Well said! Also thank you, now I know what a Sea Lion is, never heard of such a thing (in this context)

                              bribear@blahaj.zoneB 1 Reply Last reply
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                              • jetsoft@hachyderm.ioJ jetsoft@hachyderm.io

                                @alice I'm just triggered by the endrant closing without a startrant opening. Feels wrong. Unmatched brackets.
                                (JOKE))

                                But i am thinking of starting to filter some of the links to the more annoying ad filled sites.
                                Oh an bots that repeat the headline text twice and then again in the links preview.

                                alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
                                alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
                                alice@lgbtqia.space
                                wrote last edited by
                                #32

                                @jetsoft I get that. It's like when someone starts a quote with '"' and then forgets the "'" at the end.

                                I added all the big tech social platforms and their other domains to my blocklist, so I can click the links, but they just take me to a "whoops, that page has been blocked" page.

                                /startRant

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                                • purrperl@noc.socialP purrperl@noc.social

                                  @alice

                                  We could provide newcomers with step-by-step instructions on how to change their settings so that only people they follow can reply to their posts. Though the newcomers who complain about "reply guys" are the ones least likely to follow this inconvenient procedure to get rid of unwanted replies.

                                  Reply guys don't exist. If you're unhappy about Mohammed from Gaza replying to your toots in bad English, fix your settings.

                                  Democracy can be uncomfortable, and requires conscious effort.

                                  3/3

                                  alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
                                  alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
                                  alice@lgbtqia.space
                                  wrote last edited by
                                  #33

                                  @purrperl wait a sec, did you just spend three replies implying I'm new here, not familiar with the settings available, and explaining away reply guys to me...an admin who has been here for years longer and has over 20x the followers?

                                  Ngl, that's pretty `reply guy` 💁🏼‍♀️

                                  purrperl@noc.socialP orangelantern@labyrinth.zoneO 3 Replies Last reply
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                                  • dan@friendsofdesoto.socialD dan@friendsofdesoto.social

                                    @alice

                                    I can't be the only one who had to look up sea lions (searching for it along with "reply guy" got me past the cute mammals). Here you go:
                                    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sealioning

                                    Yay learning! And thanks, Alice, for your championing of the community here in the Fedi!

                                    alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
                                    alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
                                    alice@lgbtqia.space
                                    wrote last edited by
                                    #34

                                    @dan that comic is such a good representation of sea lioning 😁

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                                    • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                      Dear Scammers, Spammers, Bots, and Trolls,
                                      Fuck you. Get off Fedi. No one wants you here.

                                      Dear Mutual Aid Requesters,
                                      Don't act like scammers, spammers, or bots—otherwise you get treated like them. Instead, build community and friends here. Contribute positively. Then folx will want to help you.

                                      Dear Adult Content Posters,
                                      Don't post other folx' nudes without consent. It makes you look like spammers and bots; and it's considered Image-Based Sexual Abuse, as well as copyright infringement—both of which are illegal. Instead, boost local sexworkers / content creators and post your own stuff. Build something positive.

                                      Dear Reply Guys, Sea Lions, and Concern Trolls,
                                      Just stop. Also, you used the wrong *their* again.

                                      Dear Everyone,
                                      Be kind. Support marginalized communities. Write good alt-text. Report predatory accounts. And keep being lovely 💞

                                      Let's keep Fedi from becoming Twitter, together.

                                      We've got a good thing here.

                                      /endRant

                                      nickgates@friendsofdesoto.socialN This user is from outside of this forum
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                                      nickgates@friendsofdesoto.social
                                      wrote last edited by
                                      #35

                                      @alice ❤️

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                                      • x41h@infosec.exchangeX x41h@infosec.exchange

                                        @alice Got ya. Wonder if I need to check my settings. I've literally never saw any content from yourself or others.

                                        alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
                                        alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
                                        alice@lgbtqia.space
                                        wrote last edited by
                                        #36

                                        @x41h well, if you have any interest, my gallery is freely available from a pinned post on my profile.

                                        If that's not your thing, totally valid too 💖

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                                        • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
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                                          alice@lgbtqia.space
                                          wrote last edited by
                                          #37

                                          @lispi314 true. Laws vary wildly, and even if it's not illegal in your area, stealing someone's art and reposting it is still a fucked up thing to do.

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