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  • c_dan4th@mstdn.socialC c_dan4th@mstdn.social

    I’m curious. How many of your Fedi mutuals have you actually met IRL?

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    For me it’s split between people I knew at university but haven’t seen in decades and people I know and have seen more recently (in the past five years). I think I’m at about three of each.

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    • c_dan4th@mstdn.socialC c_dan4th@mstdn.social

      @irilyth Interesting! I guess that would be another good question of “who do you consider your on-line friends”.

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      @c_dan4th I feel like social media has always been a way for me to keep in touch with IRL friends, going way back to the LiveJournal days. I didn't join interest groups or follow people who seemed neat, it was all about people I knew (or once in a while, friends of friends). Dreamwidth, Facebook, Twitter, BlueSky, and Mastodon, are (or were) all like that for me. The main category of exception are authors who I like and want to hear about it when they write something new. :^ )

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      • irilyth@mastodon.onlineI irilyth@mastodon.online

        @c_dan4th 28/30; the other two are someone I only know from an online game (Button Men), and an author (Daniel Keyes Moran).

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        @irilyth @c_dan4th Ironically I was gonna say only 1 or 2 but turns out, I also know Josh IRL! Hi Josh! ☺️

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        • dawne314@mas.toD dawne314@mas.to

          @irilyth @c_dan4th Ironically I was gonna say only 1 or 2 but turns out, I also know Josh IRL! Hi Josh! ☺️

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          @dawne314 @c_dan4th Ha, wow, hi! How do you two know each other? (Dawn and I know each other from volleyball, way back when; Charles and I know each other from college, even more way back when. :^ )

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          • irilyth@mastodon.onlineI irilyth@mastodon.online

            @dawne314 @c_dan4th Ha, wow, hi! How do you two know each other? (Dawn and I know each other from volleyball, way back when; Charles and I know each other from college, even more way back when. :^ )

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            @irilyth @dawne314 I have no idea how we know each other. Probably astronomy stuff. It’s not a big community.

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            • irilyth@mastodon.onlineI irilyth@mastodon.online

              @c_dan4th I feel like social media has always been a way for me to keep in touch with IRL friends, going way back to the LiveJournal days. I didn't join interest groups or follow people who seemed neat, it was all about people I knew (or once in a while, friends of friends). Dreamwidth, Facebook, Twitter, BlueSky, and Mastodon, are (or were) all like that for me. The main category of exception are authors who I like and want to hear about it when they write something new. :^ )

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              @irilyth I had rules around each of my social medias. FB was only people I knew IRL. Twitter was anyone I’d interacted win in some interesting way. Mastodon seems to trend more to the latter now that I’m not on either of the others.

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              • c_dan4th@mstdn.socialC c_dan4th@mstdn.social

                @irilyth I had rules around each of my social medias. FB was only people I knew IRL. Twitter was anyone I’d interacted win in some interesting way. Mastodon seems to trend more to the latter now that I’m not on either of the others.

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                @c_dan4th Yeah, I have a rule like that for LinkedIn, which is nominally supposed to be for work connections, but I didn't always stick to it strictly.

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                • c_dan4th@mstdn.socialC c_dan4th@mstdn.social

                  @irilyth @dawne314 I have no idea how we know each other. Probably astronomy stuff. It’s not a big community.

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                  @c_dan4th @irilyth We’ve never met in real life but if I remember correctly, we have a lot of mutual Colorado/astronomy friends

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                  • c_dan4th@mstdn.socialC c_dan4th@mstdn.social

                    I’m curious. How many of your Fedi mutuals have you actually met IRL?

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                    @c_dan4th
                    Interesting. After clicking an option here I went and added up the actual answer. I undercounted!

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                    • c_dan4th@mstdn.socialC c_dan4th@mstdn.social

                      I’m curious. How many of your Fedi mutuals have you actually met IRL?

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                      @c_dan4th honestly I didn't count, I am just flinging darts at my memory. 😉

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                      • c_dan4th@mstdn.socialC c_dan4th@mstdn.social

                        I’m curious. How many of your Fedi mutuals have you actually met IRL?

                        Boost for Science.

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                        @c_dan4th My accounts are hobby related, not real-life-socialization related. Overlap is mostly coincidental (though a little higher for one alt than this one) and I'm more likely to've "met" mutuals in other contexts online.

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                        • dawne314@mas.toD dawne314@mas.to

                          @c_dan4th @irilyth We’ve never met in real life but if I remember correctly, we have a lot of mutual Colorado/astronomy friends

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                          @dawne314 @irilyth Cool, well, it’s good to know you anyway!

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                          • c_dan4th@mstdn.socialC c_dan4th@mstdn.social

                            I’m curious. How many of your Fedi mutuals have you actually met IRL?

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                            @c_dan4th a few here, a bunch across all accounts

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                            • irilyth@mastodon.onlineI irilyth@mastodon.online

                              @c_dan4th Yeah, I have a rule like that for LinkedIn, which is nominally supposed to be for work connections, but I didn't always stick to it strictly.

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                              @irilyth For LI, I have to have actually worked with or know the person. And I avoid it mostly.

                              For Strava, it’s anyone I’ve run/biked/whatever with, or people I particularly want to give encouragement to. And a few random people in my area who do interesting things.

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                              • c_dan4th@mstdn.socialC c_dan4th@mstdn.social

                                I’m curious. How many of your Fedi mutuals have you actually met IRL?

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                                @c_dan4th I lied. I answered none, and forgot that I follow a few folks from work.

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                                • c_dan4th@mstdn.socialC c_dan4th@mstdn.social

                                  I’m curious. How many of your Fedi mutuals have you actually met IRL?

                                  Boost for Science.

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                                  @c_dan4th I met two this past weekend at @BSidesSF

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                                  • c_dan4th@mstdn.socialC c_dan4th@mstdn.social

                                    I’m curious. How many of your Fedi mutuals have you actually met IRL?

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                                    @c_dan4th

                                    'A bunch', but all the meeting was in the before times and in Twitter days.

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                                    • c_dan4th@mstdn.socialC c_dan4th@mstdn.social

                                      I’m curious. How many of your Fedi mutuals have you actually met IRL?

                                      Boost for Science.

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                                      @c_dan4th @renata I have met 60% of the people I follow in person.

                                      Granted, I don't follow a great number, but that is by design. 🙂

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                                      • c_dan4th@mstdn.socialC c_dan4th@mstdn.social

                                        I’m curious. How many of your Fedi mutuals have you actually met IRL?

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                                        @c_dan4th I’m in 10+ bracket as I focus on building local community with my account by doing a weekly events thread called #BostonWeekend.
                                        You can meet more local mutuals by throwing an irl meetup! It’s easy and still legal, post to your closest city’s tag and get the ball rolling. I’m organizing #bostodon for eastern #masssachusetts on 4/19, come!

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                                        • c_dan4th@mstdn.socialC c_dan4th@mstdn.social

                                          I’m curious. How many of your Fedi mutuals have you actually met IRL?

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                                          @c_dan4th ISTM this question should have been based on percentages. 10% of 100 versus 100% of 10 are the same absolute number, but an answer to a very different question. Maybe ask both?

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