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  • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

    seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

    folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

    it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

    kaliranya@vtuber.houseK This user is from outside of this forum
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    #125

    @sarae I've also seen "don't boost", because supposedly boosting is how servers run up their storage use and become too expensive to maintain 😅

    So the only means of interaction remaining to me is to reply, hello

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    • adaraastin@supervolcano.angryshark.euA adaraastin@supervolcano.angryshark.eu

      @sarae The overall kindness and loveliness on fedi is one of my favourite things about being here.

      serge@babka.socialS This user is from outside of this forum
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      wrote last edited by
      #126

      @AdaraAstin

      That must be nice. Overall what my users and I get on a daily basis is abuse and harassment.

      @sarae

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      • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

        seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

        folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

        it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

        ferricoxide@blahaj.zoneF This user is from outside of this forum
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        wrote last edited by
        #127

        @sarae@ecoevo.social

        I have four, mutually-exclusive responses to posts (most- to least-common):

        * Comment (such as this, obivously)
        * Quote re-share (if I feel I have anything to add, especially a "why I reshared")
        * "Naked" re-share
        * Like/emoji (when I want to convey my feelings about a post but don't feel the post warrants a re-share)

        I guess my feeling is, that if I comment or re-share, liking seems kind of redundant? Which is to say, doing one of the other things is an implied "like".

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        • serge@babka.socialS serge@babka.social

          @AdaraAstin

          That must be nice. Overall what my users and I get on a daily basis is abuse and harassment.

          @sarae

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          #128

          @serge I'm sorry to hear that, Serge. I have been a moderator in online spaces in the past, and I know it's a huge and difficult job. I have the positive experience I do here in no small part because of the collective moderation efforts on Fedi and I'm grateful for all that instance admins and moderators do. It's largely invisible work that makes Fedi possible for the rest of us.

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          • thattagen@mastodon.artT thattagen@mastodon.art

            @sarae I often see the same attitude on Tumblr: "Oh you can just do your own thing, we don't interact with posts here."

            Sounds good on paper and maybe even a little positive until you realize you desperately want a sign that your audience is out there and that you are seen.

            thattagen@mastodon.artT This user is from outside of this forum
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            #129

            @sarae of course I write this the day before Tumblr decides to blow up their whole notes system by splitting notes between individual reblogs. Tumblr, why are you like this?

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            • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

              seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

              folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

              it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

              soozcat@vmst.ioS This user is from outside of this forum
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              wrote last edited by
              #130

              @sarae "Don't like posts on fedi" is about as useful advice as "don't randomly smile at people on the street." The whole point of going to fedi was being able to do what I wanted. I'm going to give people the online equivalent of a friendly (or sometimes wry) smile if I feel like it.

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              • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

                seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                sonic2k@oldbytes.spaceS This user is from outside of this forum
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                #131

                @sarae
                You re not alone, I am spending less and less time here eventually I will just give it a skip.

                I am already wondering if we’re heading for another Twitter

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                • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

                  seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                  folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                  it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                  txerren@mastodon.eusT This user is from outside of this forum
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                  #132

                  @sarae sorry, I favorited this toot XD

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                  • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

                    seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                    folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                    it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                    lykrast@eldritch.cafeL This user is from outside of this forum
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                    #133

                    @sarae I love it when people star my posts it makes the happiness in my smile

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                    • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

                      seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                      folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                      it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                      pascaldragon@metalhead.clubP This user is from outside of this forum
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                      #134

                      @sarae I'm not favoriting for range, I'm favoriting to signal the poster that in some way I resonate with their post (exact resonating depending on the context obviously). That's how I did it back on Twitter and that's how I do it here 🤷‍♀️

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                      • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

                        seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                        folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                        it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                        lilyyllyyllyly@mastodon.gamedev.placeL This user is from outside of this forum
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                        #135

                        @sarae im pretty new here (my account is a few years old but i stopped using mastodon for a few years and am only returning now) so im always nervous about interacting with posts thinking im doing something wrong. I'm still never sure on boosting, but I do favorite posts all the time so the replies here being generally positive is reassuring :3

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                        • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

                          seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                          folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                          it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                          eddikat@meow.socialE This user is from outside of this forum
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                          #136

                          @sarae I’m boosting this both ironically and non ironically.

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                          • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

                            seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                            folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                            it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                            foxmime@dice.campF This user is from outside of this forum
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                            #137

                            @sarae Sometimes, I don't know what to say and click the "favorite" icon as a way of acknowledging what was said. This is often the case when someone makes a heavy or sensitive post, and I simply don't know how to respond such that not even a single emoji would do.

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                            • coba@gruene.socialC coba@gruene.social

                              @sarae @colo_lee @GPJohnston it is very nice to assume someone just wants to share newfound knowledge.

                              maybe it is worded as "advice" because this a style of conversation people are used to.

                              you can also word it as "something I learned" and hope that others find useful so I am sharing it.

                              jztusk@mastodon.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
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                              #138

                              @coba @sarae @colo_lee @GPJohnston

                              Yep. Stating things as "this is what I do, and here's why" works a whole lot better for me than telling other people what to do.

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                              • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

                                seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                                folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                                it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                                seadonut@tech.lgbtS This user is from outside of this forum
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                                wrote last edited by
                                #139

                                @sarae
                                theres also the possibility of i like a post but an oomfie might not, so i dont boost it onto their home page

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                                • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

                                  seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                                  folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                                  it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                                  mrmoniker@mastodon.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
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                                  wrote last edited by
                                  #140

                                  @sarae Por que no los dos? I mean, at one's discretion.

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                                  • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

                                    seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                                    folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                                    it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                                    carbisari@yiff.lifeC This user is from outside of this forum
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                                    #141

                                    @sarae It's my account I do what the fuck I want I will like everything I will post shit untagged I will reblig the same thing twenty times I will piss in the sink

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                                    • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

                                      seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                                      folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                                      it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                                      redoct@infosec.townR This user is from outside of this forum
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                                      wrote last edited by
                                      #142

                                      @sarae 'Liking' instead of boosting is a way to interact without everyone muting you for reposting all sorts of crap they don't care about.

                                      Did
                                      I like your post about the Japanese rapper Creepy Nuts? Yes. Does anyone in my instance give a shit? Probably not. 🙂

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                                      • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

                                        seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                                        folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                                        it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                                        baloouriza@social.tulsa.ok.usB This user is from outside of this forum
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                                        #143

                                        @sarae Also fundamentally fails to understand that all interactions contribute to whether or not something makes it to trending pages in most server software (including Mastodon).

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                                        • sarae@ecoevo.socialS sarae@ecoevo.social

                                          seeing another round of "don't favorite posts on fedi"

                                          folks it is a kind and lovely thing to favorite someone's post and anyone who tells you not to be kind and lovely has told you something about themself

                                          it's true that it doesn't particulary increase the distribution of your post but the idea that we're all here to get things distributed as far as possible is pretty weird

                                          mate@bzh.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
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                                          wrote last edited by
                                          #144

                                          @sarae

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