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  3. Hey paperwork designers, you do realize that when you ask about sex at birth, trans people are just going to lie on your paperwork, right?

Hey paperwork designers, you do realize that when you ask about sex at birth, trans people are just going to lie on your paperwork, right?

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  • jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ This user is from outside of this forum
    jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ This user is from outside of this forum
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    Hey paperwork designers, you do realize that when you ask about sex at birth, trans people are just going to lie on your paperwork, right?

    nyanbinary@infosec.exchangeN jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ mloxton@zeroes.caM celestiallavendar@icedoatmilk.coffeeC tessarakt@mastodon.socialT 6 Replies Last reply
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    • jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ jesstheunstill@infosec.exchange

      Hey paperwork designers, you do realize that when you ask about sex at birth, trans people are just going to lie on your paperwork, right?

      nyanbinary@infosec.exchangeN This user is from outside of this forum
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      @JessTheUnstill waaat, folx lying on forms? I'd never

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      • jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ jesstheunstill@infosec.exchange

        Hey paperwork designers, you do realize that when you ask about sex at birth, trans people are just going to lie on your paperwork, right?

        jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ This user is from outside of this forum
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        "Oh no, you found my one weakness! I'm compelled to out myself if you append "sex at birth" to a paperwork form!"

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        • jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ jesstheunstill@infosec.exchange

          Hey paperwork designers, you do realize that when you ask about sex at birth, trans people are just going to lie on your paperwork, right?

          mloxton@zeroes.caM This user is from outside of this forum
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          @JessTheUnstill
          True, but if I am designing paperwork and I ask for sex at birth, I am asking for a medical reason, because if a man has ovaries, that can be a really important fact in diagnosis, and if a woman used to have testes and no longer does, that too has implications for diagnosis.

          So, I hope like crazy they aren't lying, because that would mess with testing and diagnostics in a bad way

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          • mloxton@zeroes.caM mloxton@zeroes.ca

            @JessTheUnstill
            True, but if I am designing paperwork and I ask for sex at birth, I am asking for a medical reason, because if a man has ovaries, that can be a really important fact in diagnosis, and if a woman used to have testes and no longer does, that too has implications for diagnosis.

            So, I hope like crazy they aren't lying, because that would mess with testing and diagnostics in a bad way

            jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ This user is from outside of this forum
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            @mloxton Not all people who were born women have ovaries either.

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            • jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ jesstheunstill@infosec.exchange

              @mloxton Not all people who were born women have ovaries either.

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              @mloxton if presence or absence of ovaries is important, ask about ovaries

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              • mloxton@zeroes.caM mloxton@zeroes.ca

                @JessTheUnstill
                True, but if I am designing paperwork and I ask for sex at birth, I am asking for a medical reason, because if a man has ovaries, that can be a really important fact in diagnosis, and if a woman used to have testes and no longer does, that too has implications for diagnosis.

                So, I hope like crazy they aren't lying, because that would mess with testing and diagnostics in a bad way

                cordiallychloe@tech.lgbtC This user is from outside of this forum
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                @mloxton @JessTheUnstill

                I will lie every single time because my assigned sex actually says nothing about my current body.

                My hormones are female. My genitals are female. My body is female.

                If you treat me as my sex assigned at birth, you could actually kill me.

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                • jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ jesstheunstill@infosec.exchange

                  Hey paperwork designers, you do realize that when you ask about sex at birth, trans people are just going to lie on your paperwork, right?

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                  @JessTheUnstill@infosec.exchange Yeah but then they make lying on the form a federal offense with minimum 5 year jail time and only use the ruling to prosecute trans people that didn't put down their birth sex.

                  It's really a benefit for them, because either you comply and build their dataset for them or you don't and they get to imprison another bad trans when they figure it out.

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                  • jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ jesstheunstill@infosec.exchange

                    Hey paperwork designers, you do realize that when you ask about sex at birth, trans people are just going to lie on your paperwork, right?

                    tessarakt@mastodon.socialT This user is from outside of this forum
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                    @JessTheUnstill In which contexts would that be legal to ask?

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                    • jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ jesstheunstill@infosec.exchange

                      "Oh no, you found my one weakness! I'm compelled to out myself if you append "sex at birth" to a paperwork form!"

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                      @JessTheUnstill I always say “none, I was underage… pervert”

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                      • petterofcats@mastodon.worldP petterofcats@mastodon.world

                        @JessTheUnstill I always say “none, I was underage… pervert”

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                        @PetterOfCats haha, good one

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                        • jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ jesstheunstill@infosec.exchange

                          Hey paperwork designers, you do realize that when you ask about sex at birth, trans people are just going to lie on your paperwork, right?

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                          @JessTheUnstill I always say "that's a complicated question for me because my birth certificate was updated so..."

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                          • jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ jesstheunstill@infosec.exchange

                            @mloxton if presence or absence of ovaries is important, ask about ovaries

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                            @JessTheUnstill

                            Also, like, I could guess but I don't know for sure I've got ovaries. If that's important for medical diagnosis, surely I'm not the one who should be figuring it out!

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                            • jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ jesstheunstill@infosec.exchange

                              @mloxton if presence or absence of ovaries is important, ask about ovaries

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                              @JessTheUnstill

                              Good point, but "sex at birth" has a ton of medical implications, and it would take a LOT more effort (which is certainly called for) to list all the critical things one would need to specify.

                              e.g. "have you ever had ... ovaries, testes, prostate, breasts, ..."

                              I guess it was a bad idea all along to assume stuff from "assigned sex at birth", and we, as medical professionals need to rethink how we determine risk and how we ask

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                              • jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ jesstheunstill@infosec.exchange

                                @mloxton Not all people who were born women have ovaries either.

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                                @JessTheUnstill

                                Right, but if you were born without them, then they aren't a risk

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                                • mloxton@zeroes.caM mloxton@zeroes.ca

                                  @JessTheUnstill

                                  Good point, but "sex at birth" has a ton of medical implications, and it would take a LOT more effort (which is certainly called for) to list all the critical things one would need to specify.

                                  e.g. "have you ever had ... ovaries, testes, prostate, breasts, ..."

                                  I guess it was a bad idea all along to assume stuff from "assigned sex at birth", and we, as medical professionals need to rethink how we determine risk and how we ask

                                  jesstheunstill@infosec.exchangeJ This user is from outside of this forum
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                                  @mloxton then I'll add - you can scold me all you want, but trans people in general are still going to lie on paperwork where they don't feel it's that particular party's business what their birth gender was. I'm likely to give a different answer to a nurse or doctor in an exam room who explains what they're using that info for than I am a generic patient intake form.

                                  Furthermore, "what sex are you" can be different for the same exact trans person in a doctor's office depending on how this information is being used.

                                  What letter do I have on my ID? And which ID - state vs federal vs birth certificate vs social security
                                  What letter does my insurance have on file for me
                                  What hormones do I run on now
                                  What hormones have I run on in the past
                                  What organs do I have now
                                  What organs have I had in the past
                                  What pronouns do I want people to talk to me as

                                  All mixed with the question of "will I still be treated with care and respect if I out myself to strangers?"

                                  And that's a big fuckin unknown scary question for any trans person going to a doctor for the first time when they hand you a clipboard with "what's your sex at birth"?

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