Every woman is reading this right now going “sounds about right.”
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@dnkboston yikesssss
@Ashedryden I'm so not unique.
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RE: https://hachyderm.io/@skinnylatte/116558145727389693
Every woman is reading this right now going “sounds about right.”
@Ashedryden yup. I had a ruptured appendix for almost a year.
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RE: https://hachyderm.io/@skinnylatte/116558145727389693
Every woman is reading this right now going “sounds about right.”
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RE: https://hachyderm.io/@skinnylatte/116558145727389693
Every woman is reading this right now going “sounds about right.”
@Ashedryden And how nothing has changed (enough) since the early '50s when my mother got the same nonsense with acute rheumatic fever/CHF.
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RE: https://hachyderm.io/@skinnylatte/116558145727389693
Every woman is reading this right now going “sounds about right.”
@Ashedryden @skinnylatte Yep, my endometriosis was dismissed as stress for 20 years.
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@Ashedryden @skinnylatte Yep, my endometriosis was dismissed as stress for 20 years.
@catnip
Mine too. Then cancer for several years.
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RE: https://hachyderm.io/@skinnylatte/116558145727389693
Every woman is reading this right now going “sounds about right.”
@Ashedryden Heck that sometimes even happens to men. (not as often, though.)
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RE: https://hachyderm.io/@skinnylatte/116558145727389693
Every woman is reading this right now going “sounds about right.”
@Ashedryden
I feel like we should start a hashtag for it, like:
#ItWasntAnxiety and then you add what it ended up being for you.
For me, #ItWasntAnxiety it was POTS and May-Thurner Syndrome. -
RE: https://hachyderm.io/@skinnylatte/116558145727389693
Every woman is reading this right now going “sounds about right.”
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@dnkboston yikesssss
My doctor told me my persistent chest pain was most likely heartburn. Nope, pulmonary embolism.
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My doctor told me my persistent chest pain was most likely heartburn. Nope, pulmonary embolism.
@cousinsd Oh my god. That's more immediately life threatening. That doctor should have apologized. @Ashedryden
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RE: https://hachyderm.io/@skinnylatte/116558145727389693
Every woman is reading this right now going “sounds about right.”
@Ashedryden @skinnylatte lmao, I broke both bones in my lower leg and required a rod and 12 screws in my ankle and they kept telling me that I probably just sprained my ankle.
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@Ashedryden @skinnylatte lmao, I broke both bones in my lower leg and required a rod and 12 screws in my ankle and they kept telling me that I probably just sprained my ankle.
@irene Ugh. I hope someone checked your bone mineral density and vitamin D levels.
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RE: https://hachyderm.io/@skinnylatte/116558145727389693
Every woman is reading this right now going “sounds about right.”
@Ashedryden I've witnessed this several times firsthand with my ex-wife. At one point during her university years she called to say she had passed out at school and I needed to come get her. Brought her to the ER. She's the talkative type and mentioned to the doctor that she has anxiety issues. And that's all it took: woman + anxiety. He blamed it on the anxiety disorder, and he was outta there. The amazing (woman) nurse then told us (in a plausibly-deniable offhand way) that, based on my ex-wife's description of abdominal pain immediately preceding it, it could also be a vasovagal nerve reaction due to intestinal problems which would have nothing to do with anxiety.
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@irene Ugh. I hope someone checked your bone mineral density and vitamin D levels.
@femme_mal lol I live in Seattle so my vitamin D is bad. My bone density is quite good due to the skating
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@Ashedryden “You know how sometimes you have bad gas and it can make your tummy hurt a little bit?” — The ER doc about 12 hours before my wife's emergency appendectomy and 5 day hospital stay from abscess.
My Mum had a cousin who was constantly told the pain in her stomach was just nerves, just take another valium.
When a doctor finally ran some tests, oh, it's stomach cancer, we'll have to remove most of your stomach, what a pity we didn't find this earlier, we might have been able to save most of your stomach.
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RE: https://hachyderm.io/@skinnylatte/116558145727389693
Every woman is reading this right now going “sounds about right.”
@Ashedryden
So... I was having chest pains that probably were anxiety. BUT the anxiety was related to low vitamin D. As soon a my vitamin D levels went up, my anxiety and chest pains went away. My regular doc said "just anxiety." The cardiologist included a vitamin D screen with the other tests. I plan to have words with my PCP. -
RE: https://hachyderm.io/@skinnylatte/116558145727389693
Every woman is reading this right now going “sounds about right.”
@Ashedryden OMG I literally got giardia and it took my doctor months -- three lifecycles for the lil wigglers and associated horrible pain for me -- before he stopped telling me I was imagining it and asked if I did any hiking or anything
at the time I had a full-time job working outdoors
which was in my records but the doctor apparently couldn't get his head around the idea of a woman going outside
much easier to believe I'm crazy!
antibiotics cleared it up in LESS THAN 12 HOURS
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@Ashedryden @skinnylatte Yep, my endometriosis was dismissed as stress for 20 years.
@catnip @Ashedryden @skinnylatte my endometriosis was because I was frigid!
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@Ashedryden
I feel like we should start a hashtag for it, like:
#ItWasntAnxiety and then you add what it ended up being for you.
For me, #ItWasntAnxiety it was POTS and May-Thurner Syndrome.@3TomatoesShort @Ashedryden I don't think all of mine would fit in a single toot... and they still haven't tested me for EDS yet... if it's not EDS, then my bleeding issue remains unexplained as well, but it's apparently vascular and not blood related.
️ yay! #ItWasntAnxiety it was a whole damn list of things, #ItStillIsntAnxiety that is causing all these other problems, either. And solidarity with all of you that have endured this hell.
