My mom used to do environmental activism.
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My mom used to do environmental activism. All by herself, she got earth day started, got a recycling center going in town, and was a whistleblower about Dow chemical using agent orange. She was mentioned in Time Magazine for it.
Then she went to a barbecue for environmentalists. They put her down for wearing red lipstick and long nails.
And then her activism days petered out because she didn't want to hang out with these people.
Make sure you can see the forest for the trees.
@smutmag
All who strive to conserve our beautiful, natural home are worthy of praise. Purists with an all or nothing judgmental mindset end up doing more damage than good. -
My mom used to do environmental activism. All by herself, she got earth day started, got a recycling center going in town, and was a whistleblower about Dow chemical using agent orange. She was mentioned in Time Magazine for it.
Then she went to a barbecue for environmentalists. They put her down for wearing red lipstick and long nails.
And then her activism days petered out because she didn't want to hang out with these people.
Make sure you can see the forest for the trees.
@smutmag something I have experienced myself, in a different form. It's sad and disheartening.
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@smutmag
All who strive to conserve our beautiful, natural home are worthy of praise. Purists with an all or nothing judgmental mindset end up doing more damage than good.@chillybot @smutmag purists or posers?

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My mom used to do environmental activism. All by herself, she got earth day started, got a recycling center going in town, and was a whistleblower about Dow chemical using agent orange. She was mentioned in Time Magazine for it.
Then she went to a barbecue for environmentalists. They put her down for wearing red lipstick and long nails.
And then her activism days petered out because she didn't want to hang out with these people.
Make sure you can see the forest for the trees.
@smutmag
Thanks we need committed people like that -
@smutmag
Thanks we need committed people like that@smutmag
So now tell me how you are able to make it over there -
My mom used to do environmental activism. All by herself, she got earth day started, got a recycling center going in town, and was a whistleblower about Dow chemical using agent orange. She was mentioned in Time Magazine for it.
Then she went to a barbecue for environmentalists. They put her down for wearing red lipstick and long nails.
And then her activism days petered out because she didn't want to hang out with these people.
Make sure you can see the forest for the trees.
@smutmag your mum sounds like am amazing person. Such a shame the world is full of tossers who spend their time taking down and belittling people for their ego/pleasure/kicks/ignoramce. Hope she finds a fullfilling niche where people appreciate her for being her.
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@smutmag
So now tell me how you are able to make it over there@Joshua344 What do you mean?
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My mom used to do environmental activism. All by herself, she got earth day started, got a recycling center going in town, and was a whistleblower about Dow chemical using agent orange. She was mentioned in Time Magazine for it.
Then she went to a barbecue for environmentalists. They put her down for wearing red lipstick and long nails.
And then her activism days petered out because she didn't want to hang out with these people.
Make sure you can see the forest for the trees.
@smutmag This is devastating to hear! Another great loss scored by identity politics.

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My mom used to do environmental activism. All by herself, she got earth day started, got a recycling center going in town, and was a whistleblower about Dow chemical using agent orange. She was mentioned in Time Magazine for it.
Then she went to a barbecue for environmentalists. They put her down for wearing red lipstick and long nails.
And then her activism days petered out because she didn't want to hang out with these people.
Make sure you can see the forest for the trees.
@smutmag Why does the left shoot itself compulsively?
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My mom used to do environmental activism. All by herself, she got earth day started, got a recycling center going in town, and was a whistleblower about Dow chemical using agent orange. She was mentioned in Time Magazine for it.
Then she went to a barbecue for environmentalists. They put her down for wearing red lipstick and long nails.
And then her activism days petered out because she didn't want to hang out with these people.
Make sure you can see the forest for the trees.
@smutmag I can relate, both being the meditator and consciousness practitioner among more traditional climate NGOs, being the one woman in the sea of dark suits at IT conferences and being the person trying to say that we should be allowed to have feelings and deciding our own work methods during Open Source volunteer work... It's extremely tiresome, but if I withdraw, the unconscious patriarchal patterns win? Have to take a lot of breaks, though, and do yoga
️ And of course: meditate 
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@smutmag Why does the left shoot itself compulsively?
"If its not perfect its shit!". All or nothing. No seeing practical intermediary steps.
Back when i participated on Reddit, I loved hanging out in /r/vegan. plant based or cultured alternatives? Yes please! super exciting (Im not vegan but I cook and shop for one) and I love hearing about all the new vegan things.
I'd post something positive in the vegansphere but couch it like
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"If its not perfect its shit!". All or nothing. No seeing practical intermediary steps.
Back when i participated on Reddit, I loved hanging out in /r/vegan. plant based or cultured alternatives? Yes please! super exciting (Im not vegan but I cook and shop for one) and I love hearing about all the new vegan things.
I'd post something positive in the vegansphere but couch it like
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"we're not entirely a vegan household.. yet.. this is a big step towards it super loving this." or heaven forbid mention that we use sustainable natural bee honey, and inevitably i'd get that ONE person going REEEEE REEEEEE YOUR IMPERFECT IMPLEMENTATION OF WATSONS 1947 MANIFESTO IS FLAWED AND YOU'RE A HYPOCRITE YOU ANIMAL MURDERER, and Im like hey, I was just pointing out that cultured salmon could quickly scale to be cheaper than the real thing back off.
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"we're not entirely a vegan household.. yet.. this is a big step towards it super loving this." or heaven forbid mention that we use sustainable natural bee honey, and inevitably i'd get that ONE person going REEEEE REEEEEE YOUR IMPERFECT IMPLEMENTATION OF WATSONS 1947 MANIFESTO IS FLAWED AND YOU'RE A HYPOCRITE YOU ANIMAL MURDERER, and Im like hey, I was just pointing out that cultured salmon could quickly scale to be cheaper than the real thing back off.
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My litmus test for anything animal related, or environmental related is: Is what Im doing net better for the planet (no matter how insignificant)? If yes, then shut the hell up. Im making things better.. Are you? or are you just standing around complaining about how people could be doing it better?
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My mom used to do environmental activism. All by herself, she got earth day started, got a recycling center going in town, and was a whistleblower about Dow chemical using agent orange. She was mentioned in Time Magazine for it.
Then she went to a barbecue for environmentalists. They put her down for wearing red lipstick and long nails.
And then her activism days petered out because she didn't want to hang out with these people.
Make sure you can see the forest for the trees.
@smutmag Had a small scale version of this recently. I told someone I canceled my Apple iCloud and Apple Card because of Apple's political donations, and the person I was talking to harangued me that I haven't boycotted the other 30 companies that did something similar.
Apple was the company I had a relationship with, and I ended it. I'm sorry that I can't perfectly protest everything.
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@smutmag Why does the left shoot itself compulsively?
In the case of my mother, it boiled down to two things: She had the audacity to get things done without their help, and she wasn't even wearing the "uniform." So they had to belittle her accomplishments and make her feel like a poser. The club wasn't REALLY about environmental justice. It was about having a group to hate on "pretty, vapid" people. Unfortunately, I think a lot of people are more motivated by social standing in a group than by altruistic acts.
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@smutmag Had a small scale version of this recently. I told someone I canceled my Apple iCloud and Apple Card because of Apple's political donations, and the person I was talking to harangued me that I haven't boycotted the other 30 companies that did something similar.
Apple was the company I had a relationship with, and I ended it. I'm sorry that I can't perfectly protest everything.
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My mom used to do environmental activism. All by herself, she got earth day started, got a recycling center going in town, and was a whistleblower about Dow chemical using agent orange. She was mentioned in Time Magazine for it.
Then she went to a barbecue for environmentalists. They put her down for wearing red lipstick and long nails.
And then her activism days petered out because she didn't want to hang out with these people.
Make sure you can see the forest for the trees.
@smutmag I'm so sorry she was subjected to that - and what an amazing person to have achieved all that she did.
This kind of narrow-minded and exclusionary attitude is, sadly, I think typical for so many activist and advocacy movements.
But doing the work is what matters - and for that, from here in Ireland, I am grateful to your mother.
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My mom used to do environmental activism. All by herself, she got earth day started, got a recycling center going in town, and was a whistleblower about Dow chemical using agent orange. She was mentioned in Time Magazine for it.
Then she went to a barbecue for environmentalists. They put her down for wearing red lipstick and long nails.
And then her activism days petered out because she didn't want to hang out with these people.
Make sure you can see the forest for the trees.
@smutmag That's awful, having to put up with that.
Thank you for sharing your mom's story, and I hope it reaches the people who need to hear this the most.
Wishing your mom all the best!
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My mom used to do environmental activism. All by herself, she got earth day started, got a recycling center going in town, and was a whistleblower about Dow chemical using agent orange. She was mentioned in Time Magazine for it.
Then she went to a barbecue for environmentalists. They put her down for wearing red lipstick and long nails.
And then her activism days petered out because she didn't want to hang out with these people.
Make sure you can see the forest for the trees.
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@miki_lou She doesn't consume much and doesn't have a car. But she stopped doing organized things because it was required that she change her personality and aesthetic. I think your message should be sent to people who would reject help because they look down on women who wear lipstick. And she still did more in her lifetime than any of them, or any current environmental activist I know.