<![CDATA[That PixelFed Dansup guy has been called out by BIPOC women for a couple of years and I see he’s up to his usual BS again.]]>That PixelFed Dansup guy has been called out by BIPOC women for a couple of years and I see he’s up to his usual BS again. He will claim minority status to excuse his behaviour.
He has been one big red flag since the beginning and if you make excuses for him just block me.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/topic/c68196ae-92f4-4fc0-9be8-c878c3e7d159/that-pixelfed-dansup-guy-has-been-called-out-by-bipoc-women-for-a-couple-of-years-and-i-see-he-s-up-to-his-usual-bs-again.RSS for NodeMon, 06 Apr 2026 18:53:20 GMTMon, 30 Mar 2026 16:48:15 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to That PixelFed Dansup guy has been called out by BIPOC women for a couple of years and I see he’s up to his usual BS again. on Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:38:58 GMT]]>@stephanie It gets tricky when it’s personal and it’s not your experience to divulge.
It can get lonely.
Fedi certainly takes some maneuvering, but I’ll gladly start over from scratch and find the good ones again if it comes to that.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://fandom.garden/users/stephaniepixie/statuses/116319344318221330https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://fandom.garden/users/stephaniepixie/statuses/116319344318221330Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:38:58 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to That PixelFed Dansup guy has been called out by BIPOC women for a couple of years and I see he’s up to his usual BS again. on Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:35:57 GMT]]>@stephaniepixie @giflian That's true. And it actually lead to many people leaving when that happened. I was thankful to everyone who believed me. I just couldn't share what had happened to them, so I needed other people to do it for me. It's annoying.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://ottawa.place/users/stephanie/statuses/116319332412966554https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://ottawa.place/users/stephanie/statuses/116319332412966554Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:35:57 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to That PixelFed Dansup guy has been called out by BIPOC women for a couple of years and I see he’s up to his usual BS again. on Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:34:39 GMT]]>@stephanie @giflian I understand that.
I don’t care if I lose followers, especially if they are from the same instance as the abusers. They can migrate and find me later if they care to remain mutuals.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://fandom.garden/users/stephaniepixie/statuses/116319327338647636https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://fandom.garden/users/stephaniepixie/statuses/116319327338647636Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:34:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to That PixelFed Dansup guy has been called out by BIPOC women for a couple of years and I see he’s up to his usual BS again. on Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:31:17 GMT]]>@stephaniepixie @giflian Absolutely.

However, admins of large instances (like Chad), have enormous power on your follows/followers.

The first time I named him, I was banned from the instance and lost hundreds of mutuals. It's really a big problem here

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://ottawa.place/users/stephanie/statuses/116319314067743535https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://ottawa.place/users/stephanie/statuses/116319314067743535Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:31:17 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to That PixelFed Dansup guy has been called out by BIPOC women for a couple of years and I see he’s up to his usual BS again. on Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:29:46 GMT]]>@giflian @stephanie I understand why people subtoot if they don’t want violent attention but I feel like by not naming the perpetrators we keep so many people out of the loop, which then protects the abusers.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://fandom.garden/users/stephaniepixie/statuses/116319308112361169https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://fandom.garden/users/stephaniepixie/statuses/116319308112361169Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:29:46 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to That PixelFed Dansup guy has been called out by BIPOC women for a couple of years and I see he’s up to his usual BS again. on Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:25:02 GMT]]>@stephanie @giflian Unsurprising that two shitty men who are well-liked by men would tag-team in the ring.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://fandom.garden/users/stephaniepixie/statuses/116319289485314991https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://fandom.garden/users/stephaniepixie/statuses/116319289485314991Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:25:02 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to That PixelFed Dansup guy has been called out by BIPOC women for a couple of years and I see he’s up to his usual BS again. on Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:22:12 GMT]]>@stephanie @giflian @stephaniepixie dansup's aggrandizing manner is what made me avoid pixelfed when i changed servers

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mstdn.social/ap/users/116234574708632892/statuses/116319278391275741https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mstdn.social/ap/users/116234574708632892/statuses/116319278391275741Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:22:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to That PixelFed Dansup guy has been called out by BIPOC women for a couple of years and I see he’s up to his usual BS again. on Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:22:05 GMT]]>@stephanie @stephaniepixie starting to see the subtoots in my feed, and wondering what past subtoots were about either of them too.

I tend to mute people who say shitty things, which makes my experience nicer but I do miss some context.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://techhub.social/users/giflian/statuses/116319277936240417https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://techhub.social/users/giflian/statuses/116319277936240417Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:22:05 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to That PixelFed Dansup guy has been called out by BIPOC women for a couple of years and I see he’s up to his usual BS again. on Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:02:33 GMT]]>@giflian @stephaniepixie They're very good friends. They always defend each other when they're being accused of "being shitty"

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://ottawa.place/users/stephanie/statuses/116319201102134835https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://ottawa.place/users/stephanie/statuses/116319201102134835Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:02:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to That PixelFed Dansup guy has been called out by BIPOC women for a couple of years and I see he’s up to his usual BS again. on Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:00:54 GMT]]>@stephaniepixie I feel like I'm having to catch up on a lot this morning, having only vaguely heard of him before. Seemed like he's recently defending the guy who's being sued for embezzlement.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://techhub.social/users/giflian/statuses/116319194643643341https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://techhub.social/users/giflian/statuses/116319194643643341Mon, 30 Mar 2026 17:00:54 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to That PixelFed Dansup guy has been called out by BIPOC women for a couple of years and I see he’s up to his usual BS again. on Mon, 30 Mar 2026 16:59:21 GMT]]>@stephaniepixie of the couple folks on fedi I've noticed with major Main Character Syndrome I've personally noticed over the years, he's certainly one of them

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://gunbark.dev/users/cold/statuses/01KMZTZ1RMA9XDMK23BYW3Q6Z8https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://gunbark.dev/users/cold/statuses/01KMZTZ1RMA9XDMK23BYW3Q6Z8Mon, 30 Mar 2026 16:59:21 GMT