<![CDATA[Ok there is no way to say this without kink shaming *someone* / many someones but -- !]]>Ok there is no way to say this without kink shaming *someone* / many someones but -- !

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/topic/9401cd4b-c646-40a2-9efa-26f157a67b62/ok-there-is-no-way-to-say-this-without-kink-shaming-someone-many-someones-butRSS for NodeFri, 01 May 2026 12:56:16 GMTWed, 22 Apr 2026 02:26:41 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Ok there is no way to say this without kink shaming *someone* / many someones but -- ! on Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:42:33 GMT]]>@FinalGirl @MxVerda Yeah, I've had better luck with that tag myself. That and sites dedicated to queer porn

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/ap/users/116417612693935998/statuses/116446052553116591https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/ap/users/116417612693935998/statuses/116446052553116591Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:42:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ok there is no way to say this without kink shaming *someone* / many someones but -- ! on Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:39:01 GMT]]>@MxVerda like, look at some of the stuff on @AltAfterDark, the difference is night and day

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/users/GroupNebula563/statuses/116446038690450424https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/users/GroupNebula563/statuses/116446038690450424Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:39:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ok there is no way to say this without kink shaming *someone* / many someones but -- ! on Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:37:55 GMT]]>@FinalGirl exactly WTFFF? I just want to see 2 (or more, idc) humans of appropriate age etc enjoying each other. Or enjoying consentual-non-consent. Whatever.

WTF is *wrong* with people that it's degraded this far?

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/MxVerda/statuses/116446034344878355https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/MxVerda/statuses/116446034344878355Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:37:55 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ok there is no way to say this without kink shaming *someone* / many someones but -- ! on Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:36:10 GMT]]>@MxVerda OMG it’s so hard, and why?! I will say I’ve had better success looking for ”woman POV” because it’s more just fucking (or whatever) and less “I’m fucking this one particular fetish.”

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://blackqueer.life/users/FinalGirl/statuses/116446027472081102https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://blackqueer.life/users/FinalGirl/statuses/116446027472081102Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:36:10 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ok there is no way to say this without kink shaming *someone* / many someones but -- ! on Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:35:54 GMT]]>"Omg feminists are kill-joys who just hate porn."

Maybe porn (as it currently exists) sucks and we all deserve better, whether you want to engage with it or not.

To paraphrase someone in a Stephany Sterling video "wait, that sounds like it could apply to more than just video games."

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/MxVerda/statuses/116446026450984158https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/MxVerda/statuses/116446026450984158Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:35:54 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ok there is no way to say this without kink shaming *someone* / many someones but -- ! on Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:34:31 GMT]]>I shouldn't have to clarify "please no materials where the chick looks really obviously uncomfortable", or
"I don't even know what I'm looking at", or
"jfc I know they're fictional characters but I never wanted to even think about that and still don't."

I don't know what a suitable call-to-action would be.
Yell at politicians? Yell at porn companies?
Yell -- well no, don't yell at programmers. They've got enough on their plates rn.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/MxVerda/statuses/116446020972372938https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/MxVerda/statuses/116446020972372938Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:34:31 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ok there is no way to say this without kink shaming *someone* / many someones but -- ! on Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:34:20 GMT]]>Like ok. I understand the worry about minors getting access to it, especially the complicated topics obviously.

But for adults? Are we really going to put up with this?
I shouldn't have to filter out something that is illegal (I hope??) in most / all countries.
( If you know: it's the 2 words that end in -con, referring to ages. I'm not getting into it, but I would like it to be filtered out by default ffs. I don't want to see it, I didn't consent to seeing it, and even the thumbnail or titles are deeply upsetting. )

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/MxVerda/statuses/116446020269619753https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/MxVerda/statuses/116446020269619753Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:34:20 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Ok there is no way to say this without kink shaming *someone* / many someones but -- ! on Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:29:15 GMT]]>how fucking hard is it to find 'normal' porn? Like literally just people fucking.
No dehumanisation, no weird focus on pale thin young (or very old) people. No singling out of any given trait actually!

Just focus on "this is what's going where" and "no one is being degraded outside of informed, consenting, well-tagged BDSM media".

THIS IS NOT COMPLICATED.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/MxVerda/statuses/116446000304582084https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/MxVerda/statuses/116446000304582084Wed, 22 Apr 2026 02:29:15 GMT