<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/topic/0fce43c4-eb8a-4e70-a07b-badd62b5ae81/as-someone-with-an-anxiety-disorder-who-gets-bad-brain-fog-during-very-anxious-periods-choosing-software-engineering-and-then-writing-as-careers-was-certainly-a-series-of-decisions</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 15 May 2026 00:20:59 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://board.circlewithadot.net/topic/0fce43c4-eb8a-4e70-a07b-badd62b5ae81.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:11:15 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Sat, 18 Apr 2026 18:01:58 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> Come on over to direct support for people experiencing chronic homelessness! So relaxing!</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mindly.social/ap/users/116244818589910115/statuses/116427018607223205</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mindly.social/ap/users/116244818589910115/statuses/116427018607223205</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[jaicup@mindly.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2026 18:01:58 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Sat, 18 Apr 2026 11:12:25 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> I chose to head a non-profit all by myself and suffer very similar. I can relate.</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://ludosphere.fr/users/pl/statuses/116425408201019532</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://ludosphere.fr/users/pl/statuses/116425408201019532</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pl@ludosphere.fr]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2026 11:12:25 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Sat, 18 Apr 2026 08:14:13 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> It's you again!?</p>

<div class="row mt-3"><div class="col-12 mt-3"><img class="img-thumbnail" src="https://assets.oldbytes.space/assets.oldbytes.space/media_attachments/files/116/424/702/129/013/034/original/88d6dcfdf0f088da.png" alt="Link Preview Image" /></div></div>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://oldbytes.space/users/Kroc/statuses/116424707498286172</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://oldbytes.space/users/Kroc/statuses/116424707498286172</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[kroc@oldbytes.space]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2026 08:14:13 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 19:24:57 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/neilk%40xoxo.zone">@<span>neilk</span></a></span> <span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> an anxiety AI would have to be called Marvin. I don't make the rules.</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://jorts.horse/users/red0ran/statuses/116421682603197433</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://jorts.horse/users/red0ran/statuses/116421682603197433</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[red0ran@jorts.horse]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 19:24:57 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 19:15:19 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> yep, I picked an extroverts career and ended up in psychotherapy ten years later <img src="https://board.circlewithadot.net/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f604.png?v=28325c671da" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--smile" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title=":D" alt="😄" /> New career and new life now though!</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/116387874843509316/statuses/116421644731848573</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/116387874843509316/statuses/116421644731848573</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[tomcullen@mastodon.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 19:15:19 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 19:04:01 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/dazrunner%40mastodon.social">@<span>DazRunner</span></a></span> <span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> i was just thinking something along these lines last night. i need a constant stream of problems to patiently chip away at, but having unsolved problems makes me low key anxious about not knowing how exactly i'll solve them or how much time and effort it will take or if my solution is even valid</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://pnw.zone/users/mancube/statuses/116421600330773696</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://pnw.zone/users/mancube/statuses/116421600330773696</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[mancube@pnw.zone]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 19:04:01 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 18:11:06 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io" rel="nofollow noopener">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> Painfully relatable</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://furry.engineer/users/chamomile/statuses/116421392263868642</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://furry.engineer/users/chamomile/statuses/116421392263868642</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[chamomile@furry.engineer]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 18:11:06 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:56:43 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> I‘m already incredibly thankful for all the good work you did until now. Take good care of yourself!</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://hachyderm.io/users/sebug/statuses/116421335674511578</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://hachyderm.io/users/sebug/statuses/116421335674511578</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[sebug@hachyderm.io]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:56:43 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:50:29 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> completely agree. People who suffer from anxiety, for some reason, end up addicted to feeling anxious. It's a hyper-stimulation effect imo.</p><p>A concept exploited time-and-time again by the <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/socialnetworks" rel="tag">#<span>socialnetworks</span></a>. Eg. if you display signs of <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/bodydysmorphia" rel="tag">#<span>bodydysmorphia</span></a> on IG. You'll receive 3 times the number of posts triggering this disorder compared to someone who doesn't. This drives engagement and screen time by these users / victims.</p><p>In general terms, the name given is: <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/snapchatdysmorphia" rel="tag">#<span>snapchatdysmorphia</span></a></p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/116401107525975086/statuses/116421311199265106</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/116401107525975086/statuses/116421311199265106</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[dazrunner@mastodon.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:50:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:26:07 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> I have an anxiety disorder that seems to be getting slightly worse as I get older, so a little while ago I quit my stressful position as an IT administrator for an engineering firm and got a new job as... *checks notes* the chief IT Manager for a hospital.</p><p>Uhh.</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://indiepocalypse.social/users/PastaThief/statuses/116421215326691923</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://indiepocalypse.social/users/PastaThief/statuses/116421215326691923</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[pastathief@indiepocalypse.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:26:07 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:19:19 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> I get that too. Its like I can only handle so many channels of input</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/culper/statuses/116421188595685214</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/culper/statuses/116421188595685214</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[culper@infosec.exchange]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:19:19 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:13:35 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> play to your strengths, amirite? <img src="https://board.circlewithadot.net/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f602.png?v=28325c671da" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--joy" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="😂" alt="😂" /></p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/mweiss/statuses/116421166076134990</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/mweiss/statuses/116421166076134990</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[mweiss@infosec.exchange]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:13:35 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:12:38 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> This. <img src="https://board.circlewithadot.net/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/1f4af.png?v=28325c671da" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--100" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="💯" alt="💯" /></p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/users/lisamelton/statuses/116421162347605555</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/users/lisamelton/statuses/116421162347605555</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[lisamelton@mastodon.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:12:38 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:02:00 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> <br /><img src="https://board.circlewithadot.net/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/2764.png?v=28325c671da" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--heart" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="❤" alt="❤" />️<img src="https://board.circlewithadot.net/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/2764.png?v=28325c671da" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--heart" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="❤" alt="❤" />️</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://swecyb.com/users/kaaswe/statuses/116421120546553769</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://swecyb.com/users/kaaswe/statuses/116421120546553769</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[kaaswe@swecyb.com]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 17:02:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:56:23 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> and I, for one, THANK YOU FOR SAID DECISIONS<img src="https://board.circlewithadot.net/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/android/2763.png?v=28325c671da" class="not-responsive emoji emoji-android emoji--heavy_heart_exclamation_mark_ornament" style="height:23px;width:auto;vertical-align:middle" title="❣" alt="❣" />️</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://sfba.social/users/valOrie/statuses/116421098446441788</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://sfba.social/users/valOrie/statuses/116421098446441788</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[valorie@sfba.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:56:23 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:42:52 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> It would be great if they could invent an AI to do the anxiety part for you and leave you the writing</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://xoxo.zone/users/neilk/statuses/116421045313298948</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://xoxo.zone/users/neilk/statuses/116421045313298948</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[neilk@xoxo.zone]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:42:52 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:36:40 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> we're all glad you did, you're a shining star and force for good in this chaotic modern existence</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/users/init6/statuses/116421020932484986</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/users/init6/statuses/116421020932484986</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[init6@mastodon.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:36:40 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:29:26 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> I think you’re doing great, if that helps</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://ruby.social/users/soulcutter/statuses/116420992497672321</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://ruby.social/users/soulcutter/statuses/116420992497672321</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[soulcutter@ruby.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:29:26 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:23:49 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> Are you me? lol</p><p><a href="https://oldbytes.space/tags/worldglass" rel="tag">#<span>worldglass</span></a></p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://oldbytes.space/users/Kroc/statuses/116420970352624211</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://oldbytes.space/users/Kroc/statuses/116420970352624211</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[kroc@oldbytes.space]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:23:49 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:22:29 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> haha i feel this as a combined software engineer and herder of cats (some of whom are literal cats and others are software engineers)</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://bikeshed.vibber.net/users/brooke/statuses/116420965143831863</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://bikeshed.vibber.net/users/brooke/statuses/116420965143831863</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[brooke@bikeshed.vibber.net]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:22:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:17:32 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> 🫶 🫶 🫶</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://narrativ.es/users/janl/statuses/116420945699400484</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://narrativ.es/users/janl/statuses/116420945699400484</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[janl@narrativ.es]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:17:32 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:13:55 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> sending supportive hugs!!</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.me.uk/users/CatherineFlick/statuses/116420931427992314</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.me.uk/users/CatherineFlick/statuses/116420931427992314</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[catherineflick@mastodon.me.uk]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:13:55 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:12:43 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> </p><p>Next: public speaker.</p><p>Oh, wait!</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/users/knud/statuses/116420926753749368</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/users/knud/statuses/116420926753749368</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[knud@mastodon.social]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:12:43 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Reply to as someone with an anxiety disorder who gets bad brain fog during very anxious periods, choosing software engineering and then writing as careers was certainly a series of decisions on Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:12:17 GMT]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><span><a href="/user/molly0xfff%40hachyderm.io">@<span>molly0xfff</span></a></span> You’re amazing! Hang in there</p>]]></description><link>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/fisherstudio/statuses/116420925055865799</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://infosec.exchange/users/fisherstudio/statuses/116420925055865799</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[fisherstudio@infosec.exchange]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 16:12:17 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>